Family is a child's first school, and parents are a child's first teacher. Good family education has a far-reaching impact on children and is conducive to the school to cultivate outstanding and qualified talents. At present, more and more students are tired of learning. Many students don't do or don't want to do their homework, mostly because of poor family education and poor parental supervision. I visited nearly 100 students in Grade 4, 5 and 6 in our school, and now I simply analyze some situations as follows:

1, busy making money, put it down. It should be said that a considerable number of parents of students work outside the home all the year round to earn money and entrust their children's guardianship education to their grandparents. At most, parents send back a little living expenses and tuition fees on time, while grandparents or grandparents are mostly low-educated, busy with housework and farm work, and have no ability and time to coach and educate their children. Some students live near their parents, but their parents are also busy making money, doing farm work or playing mahjong, ignoring their children's education and letting themselves go. They think that when children are handed over to school, education is the school's business, and parents don't need to worry about it at all. As a result, there is a gap in family education. This has caused the children in these families to be casual and lazy in their studies, and there has been a phenomenon that they want to do their homework but don't want to do it.

2, the family is good and spoiled. Among the students I investigated, some students have good family conditions and are only children. At home, that is the little emperor at home. Mom and dad or grandparents are afraid of melting in their mouths and holding them in their hands, and everything will be accommodated to them. Sometimes teachers need to strengthen management. Parents of children, especially grandparents, will immediately find the teacher and tell him that this is the only child in the family, so that the teacher can do his homework if he is willing, and don't let him do it if he is unwilling, and learn as much as he can. Of course, some parents want to strengthen education, but they don't know how to teach and are unwilling to be strict with their children. These children lead to luxury, lack of manners, poor habits and strong dependence. Even if you do your homework, the quality is not high, and there are few outstanding achievements.

3. Education is misleading and morality is strict. The main performance is that parents educate their children to attach importance to culture and despise moral education; Pay more attention to scores than quality; Beat and scold more, persuade and educate less. Most of these students have low comprehensive quality or are tired of learning and have serious bad habits. For homework, their ability to do it independently is poor, or they can't do it independently at all. They either pay their classmates to do it, or threaten some disadvantaged classmates to help him.

4, simple family style, good education for children. There are still many families with average economic conditions and parents who are not necessarily highly educated. But this family is harmonious, adults are hardworking and thrifty, and have good conduct. They attach great importance to children's education and training, often urge their children to study, check their homework in time every day, and visit their teachers at school regularly. Children in such families are often diligent, self-conscious, good-natured and have outstanding achievements.

Of course, there are other unhealthy situations, but mainly these four situations appear more. If family education is not strengthened and improved in time, it will seriously affect the development of school education.