Origin: Dare to ask where the child's "ambition" is.
That was a few years ago. There is such a true story: In the oral Chinese class in Grade Three, I talked with my children about a topic: "What am I going to do when I grow up?" A chubby boy said, "I want to be a boss when I grow up." Facing a childish child, I asked curiously, "Why do you want to be the boss?" The child said, "I want to earn a lot of money for my son and grandson to enjoy." I think I have to throw the question to everyone, listen to the children's opinions and ask, "What about this grandfather?" A child retorted, "He is not a good grandfather. He will make his children lazy. "
I limit myself to deep thinking: in today's increasingly affluent material, dare to ask where the children's "ambitions" are? According to China Youth Daily, a survey conducted by Urumqi media among more than 300 primary and middle school students showed that 53% students chose "private enterprise boss and entrepreneur" when answering "career they want to pursue in the future", while only 10% students chose "doctor, lawyer and movie star". A survey of more than 0/200 students in a certain place in Shandong province with the topic "What do you want to be when you grow up" shows that only two people are willing to be farmers when they grow up.
I began to ask myself again and again, what kind of people do we want our children to be, and how much effort have we made for this? Ambition is the spiritual beacon of children's growth, inspiring music and ideal spiritual home. Inspirational education should become a compulsory course in the process of children's life growth.
The first is the companion, a non-trace influence that can not be ignored.
Camera playback: One day at noon, I hurried into the classroom and found an interesting thing: almost all the boys had three or five school cards hanging on their chests. What's going on here? I took a boy's hand and started the interview. It turned out that a child watched the TV series "Forward, Forward" and admired Marshal Xu very much. It happened that the teacher issued several customized school cards, which looked like medals and hung on his chest. He also showed off like his classmates and said, "Look, with so many medals, I am a general!" " The students saw it and felt very powerful, so they passed it on one by one, and all the boys in the class became generals.
How interesting! What a group of simple and lovely little generals! Who makes a group of children aspire to be generals and companions? Children often show herd mentality, because children are still in the immature stage after all. Children's understanding of the objective world and their outlook for the future (inspirational life) are more influenced by the people around them, and peers are the closest, most similar and largest groups around children. The influence of peers plays an important role in the formation and influence of children's aspirations.
Therefore, as parents and teachers, we should try our best to understand the ambition trend of leaders in formal groups, especially in informal groups. The future world needs all kinds of talents to undertake different social division of labor, so that our world can still be colorful. The ideal of a child is still a seedling that has just sprouted or even hasn't sprouted, and it needs careful care. As long as the child's ambition is positive, we should not deny that it can lead the child to forge ahead. As long as children's ideals are beneficial to society, we should recognize them. On the contrary, we should give appropriate guidance or intervention to these children.
Second, the school, an indispensable sacred classroom
Camera playback: A child came home from school and excitedly said to his father, "Dad, do you know that Uncle Nie and Uncle Fei no longer used diapers on Shenzhou VI, but used special toilets?" Dad was very angry: "Why don't you care about diapers and toilets?" The children's father didn't know that the children had just conducted a class activity of "from God Five to God Six" in the class. These little astronomy fans are really fascinated by Shenzhou VI. "Diapers and special toilets" is a research project of their children's group! Fortunately, the parent communicated with the teacher in time, and the teacher simply launched a series of "space trip" activities with great fanfare, guiding parents and children to collect and sort out relevant information together and jointly write research reports, so that "space action" was deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. What about the kid? He also had a space addiction with his father and decided to become an astronaut on Shenzhou N!
In the past years, the school once had the scene of vigorously grasping the ideal education of communism, but under the impact of market economy, two kinds of thoughts appeared among teachers. One is that ideal education is nothing. What kind of person a child wants to be this year may not be what kind of person tomorrow, or even what kind of person tomorrow may not be at all, so ideal education is empty and meaningless. The second is that the ideal education is higher education, which is inconsistent with the value orientation of today's society. Therefore, teaching is also a white education, so it is better not to teach.
However, we must not forget that school is the main place for children to grow up. We should shoulder the educational task of the compulsory course of inspirational education and hold high the banner of inspirational education. School education is an indispensable sacred classroom for inspiring young people. It is precisely because we realize this that we should carry out inspirational education for students, light a heart lamp for children and shine on the road of life.
Relevant surveys show that children's aspirations are changing, fluctuating and dynamic, and these changes are closely related to the teaching characteristics of the school, various theme activities carried out by the school, and even the class culture of a class.
Schools should sing such songs in inspirational education:
? 1, theme song Schools should regularly organize some educational activities with the theme of inspirational education, so that "everyone has aspirations and everyone has goals" becomes a consensus, so that every child can light the ideal lamp in his heart. Our school has carried out a series of activities such as "talking to celebrities" and invited famous writers such as Zheng and Shen to enter the school and the hearts of children. When children put forward tender and lovely topics in front of idols, when children pester admirers to sign photos, their ideal flowers have quietly opened.
The school also organizes students to visit the fire brigade. After participating in the team training of fire squadron members, the children wrote: "... an uncle performed climbing a ladder for us, only to see him' swish' a few times and then climbed the ladder." I looked up and saw that it was as high as three stories, which was really admirable. I thought, how did their technology come from? It must be very difficult! Their movements are so skilled that it must have taken them a long time. When I grow up, I also want to be a firefighter to protect people's lives and property. " Another child said: "We should also have iron discipline like the armed police uncle, strictly observe discipline in collective activities, and be a person with a collective heart."
Concerto. Colorful campus life silently affects children's interests, which not only develops children's potential in different fields, but also breeds different hobbies. It is also an inspirational educational concerto. Sometimes, an opportunity to host a program will make children dream of becoming a host; Sometimes, the occurrence of a small poem will give birth to a writer; Sometimes, the success of the model airplane competition will give birth to a scientist!
3.serenade. Education is a long-term thing, so is inspirational education. Every teacher should be the creator of serenade. In children's accidental diaries, in children's impromptu speeches in class, and in daily conversations, children's ideal shadows will be projected. We should be a conscientious person and play an ideal song for our children.
When the male eagle is still hungry in the nest, it has its own dream, that is, flapping its wings, fighting the blue sky and dancing with the white clouds. Let's be a lamplighter, do inspirational education with our sincerity, care and perseverance, and light up the lights in children's hearts.
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