The learning situation includes the choice of preschool education, the placement of the school, the management ability of the class teacher, the level of the teacher's lectures, the children's learning situation, the test scores, and the meeting between the children and classmates. It is normal for parents to care and worry about their children's academic content, but excessive worry and high expectations lead to anxiety and insomnia, which is a typical educational anxiety disorder. Pursue external ideals. Social competition is becoming more and more fierce, educational resources are unbalanced, and children are worried about losing at the starting line. So strive to create the best living conditions for children, create the best learning environment, strive for the best education methods, and create a perfect growth process. But the ideal is too full, but the reality is a sense of scoring. Especially for parents who are eager for success, the gap between them may make them anxious.

It is often said that children are the best in their own homes. In fact, this is a hypothesis and assumption. To be precise, it should be "children should be good things in their own homes." This is actually a psychological reflection that parents expect too much from their children. In this state of mind, parents are always worried about their children. Are you smarter at heart and more flexible in action than your colleagues? Are children always cheap when you play? Whether the learning state is the best, whether the children's grades can maintain a good ranking, parents expect too much from their children. If there is an accident in reality, they will fall into disappointment, trouble, shame and anxiety. Our science major is education. Because I studied this major, I have a deeper understanding of education than the average person. When I was a child 1-3 grade, I didn't let my child take subject training classes, but took violin classes, dance classes and English classes.

When other children speak Mandarin and math, I said that there is no need for children to grow up naturally. So in the past three years, my children have never attended cram school. The academic performance is still good. 1-2 level is a hundred, and level 3 has declined, but it is still acceptable. I must say that in the past three years, there have been almost no children's educational anxiety. When I was in the fourth grade, I spent a year in the United States with my children because I went abroad for a holiday. This year's American life also made me realize what a pleasant education is. It should be said that there is no educational anxiety. Because American children have no exams, no rankings, and only one passing line.

The second source of instability in education is the pressure of continuing education. In my area, according to compulsory education, there are no good middle schools recently. The best middle school in the whole region is Wuhan Foreign Language School. But this school has to face Wuhan's enrollment and exams. It's not good to get into other schools nearby. It's no problem to enter the school nearby, but a good middle school means a good high school, and a good high school means a good university. Not to mention stress. Therefore, with the school choice plan, there are many opportunities to choose a school, but the pressure is great. For example, Wuhan Diplomacy recruited 400 people in 20 19, and nearly 6,000 people signed up. The pass rate is very low. The pressure of entering a higher school is actually the pressure of insufficient educational resources.