The GDP of Secretary Dakang, the figure of TV series, the fancy marriage of corrupt officials, the high emotional intelligence of the protagonist, the drama between old bones, and even the beginning of the same cup of Secretary Dakang appeared on a treasure. However, in this drama, it actually reflects a less noticeable but crucial point, that is, the education of children.
Our favorite secretary of Dakang: don't bow your head, GDP will fall. But there is another sentence that is more important: don't be careless, children should be taught well! At any time, the education of children is absolutely not to be underestimated!
Although Zhao became a director, he was still "poor and afraid". On the surface, it is the sequela of his poor family and insecurity when he was a child, but the fundamental reason is that he was not well educated and guided by his parents when he was a child.
Don't use thrift to undermine children's sense of security. Some parents like to "cry poor" in front of their children in order to cultivate their frugal habits. The mantra is "If you have no money at home, you should study hard and make a lot of money in the future". It is only natural that children should be dressed in old clothes worn by relatives, play with toys that others are tired of, and rely on which relatives are kind enough to give their children some pocket money. Children have been educated since childhood, money is hard to come by, and their hearts are full of desire for money. This example can be said to be a common scene in China families' education of children's "money".
In "in the name of people", the fifth-grade ball already knew to bribe the football captain with 15 yuan to get a chance to play for himself. He also said that the ideal of boys in his class is to buy Ramboki, and the ideal of girls is to marry a rich family.
We don't deny that children will become thrifty because of their parents' frequent "crying for poverty", but children's inner sense of deprivation will also accompany their lifelong growth, and it will bring many problems because of the sense of deprivation. Because of the pressure of family behind the poor consciousness, it occupies the bandwidth of the brain, directly devours the child's brain development ability, and affects the child's vision and pattern.