You have to pay attention to the ways and means of educating children, and you have to discipline them strictly. You should give him proper freedom, just like keeping him at home every day. Without friends and hobbies, it will definitely have a serious impact on his body and mind. Giving children freedom is not indulging them. If you don't care about anything, what education can you have? After reading your experience in educating children, what you call difficult education is just blaming the children themselves, as if it had nothing to do with them.

It is the responsibility of parents to educate their children. They should start at an early age. We can't ignore them or strictly supervise them because we don't have time and energy. How can they have a good development?

There are many ways of education, not only for children to read and write, but also for children to learn to be human beings, teach children right and wrong, and cultivate their psychology, thoughts, sentiments and character. Choose something that interests you and is valuable, and cultivate one or two specialties, such as swimming and art. Learn to get along with others in learning and cultivate all aspects of quality and ability in learning. In the long run, children will naturally develop in a good direction.

Educating children is a time-consuming and laborious task, and it is also the responsibility of parents. They don't teach when they are young, but they are unfilial when they grow up. If they deviate from the normal track, their future will be good and their families will be harmonious.