Parents' words and deeds have a very important influence on their children. Parents pay attention to sharing this detail in their daily lives, and children will follow suit to a large extent. For example, you bought an apple today, and adults and children ate it together. After you bought a puzzle, adults and children worked together and studied it together. You can't let the child feel self-centered or the child has the final say.
2. Give more encouragement to children.
No child is born excellent, and children often refuse to share it with others. Even so, parents should not reprimand and criticize their children. We know that children's endurance is very low, and reprimanding children will make them feel at a loss and afraid. In the future, they will not know how to deal with similar situations and will become at a loss. Therefore, parents should learn to encourage their children, encourage them to learn to share, and help them eliminate fear and confusion, so that children will have a clear mind, be more confident in doing things, and gradually have many friends.
What should children do if they are stingy and selfish?
3. Respect children's choices.
The point is similar to the last one. For example, when adults buy toys for their children, children are often unfamiliar with new toys and are unlikely to share them with friends without playing. Some children really have few toys of their own, let alone share them with other children. At this time, parents should not force children to share. Let's think it over. Toys are children after all, and they have the right to decide. Parents should respect their right to decide.
4. Educate children with truth
Toys are children's favorite things. Many children are reluctant to share toys with other children. At this time, parents can tell him: "If you don't want to share toys with other friends, how can others want to share his toys with you?" In this way, children can understand the meaning of sharing by expounding the truth of the matter. Parents can also share some ancient stories, such as the story of Kong Rong Jean Pear, which can deepen children's impressions and memories and help children gradually develop good qualities and habits.
5. Take more children to participate in group activities.
Another effective way for children to develop the good habit of sharing is to take them to some group activities, which require everyone in the team to help each other to complete the task. In this kind of activity, we can cultivate their sharing consciousness and communication ability, change their selfish and stingy bad habits imperceptibly, and help expand children's communication, which is a multi-purpose thing.
Therefore, in order to change the selfish and stingy behavior of children, in addition to the exemplary role of parents, more scientific strategies are used to guide and educate children, rather than coercion. I also hope that your child will become more and more excellent and make him a wonderful moment.
The above are my views and suggestions on how to treat children's meanness and selfishness. I hope it will help you ~ I look forward to more exchanges with you ~
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