In life, I believe that everyone will have frictions and contradictions with their parents more or less. After all, there are contradictions because they stand in different positions and look at problems from different angles. Our parents are also new parents, and family education is more or less inadequate. We are also children of new parents, and sometimes we can't do well. I think we should be more considerate at this time to promote the harmony of family relations. Sometimes the contradiction with parents is often due to trivial matters.
For example, on the issue of children's education, parents want their children to study hard and follow the path planned by their parents, because parents think they see more things than their children and should make decisions for them, but children often have their own ideas and are unwilling to follow the path planned by their parents. This time may be one of them? Rebellion? But what is the behavior of parents in children's eyes? Don't understand? . I don't think the cold war has any effect in this situation. The key to solving the contradiction between parents and children is good communication. Children can show their parents that they have their own ideals, and parents should learn to listen to their children's opinions. After all, what they do is to hope their children are well.
So, I think when there is a conflict with my parents, what is the key to solving the problem? Communication? And then what? Listen. Learn to communicate with each other to find problems. Children can understand their parents' good intentions, and parents can understand their children's inner thoughts, which is actually a process of mutual understanding. Without perfect parents, they are constantly learning and growing.