1. Take yourself as an example, set a benchmark and set an example for children.

In addition to announcing their own words, parents should also listen to their children's demands and feel their voices. On the one hand, it is to set an example, on the other hand, it is also to respect children. When you disagree, don't interrupt, continue to listen to the child and then sum up the problem. Only when parents are willing to listen, children will express their views unscrupulously and gradually learn to respect others.

2. Expand listening channels and cultivate children's listening ability.

When communicating with children, besides the necessary tone and speed of speech, it is more important to make eye contact. Parents should always tell their children that when communicating with others, they should look more into others' eyes and then express their opinions patiently. In addition, parents should also tell their children to listen to classmates, teachers, news and other words on campus. When others put forward opinions different from their own, they should accept them with an open mind. We should continue to carry forward the good and correct the bad.

3. Affirm the children and strengthen the hobby of listening.

Hobby is the best teacher, and listening ability can't be cultivated overnight, but more depends on the accumulation of time. In the whole process, parents should not expect too much from their children, nor ask them to listen to what they have said, and do it immediately after listening. When a child does something right under the rules, parents should enthusiastically praise the child: you really listened, my child, you are great! Through constant promotion and affirmation, let children get satisfaction, think that this is what they should do, make clear the direction of their efforts, and be proactive.

Listening is a kind of cultivation, and listening is a gift that children can use to know the world. After all, if you want to give children correct values, international outlook and outlook on life, you must seize the opportunity and guide them immediately. Only in this way can children gradually form good habits, be good at listening to others' opinions, constantly improve themselves, turn their upbringing into talents and help more people.