Many children in America have lived in one room since infancy. When children grow up to three or four years old, they will have a kind of fear, so parents will buy a very small and dark lamp and turn it on tonight to drive away their children's fear of the night. Before going to bed in the morning, parents go to their children's room to give them a kiss and say, "I love you, son!" " Good Night! Sweet dreams! "I went back to my bedroom. The children slept peacefully with toys such as cloth bears and dolls.

2. Ask more "assumptions"

"Possibility thinking" is an important aspect of viability. The kind of child who seriously discusses a difficulty and shows others how to deal with it will ask, "Suppose I do this, what will happen?" Parents should encourage their children to think more, let them think clearly about the ins and outs when they are young, and take fewer detours.

3. Allow exploration

Children are willing to admire and follow those who are willing to take risks and can cope with challenges. However, our parents are afraid that their children will bump and fall, so they are cautious and rarely let their children have an adventurous body. In fact, in today's increasingly fierce cooperation, it is difficult to win without taking risks.

4, more temptation, more encouragement, not importune.

Growing up in the United States, there is no pressure on children to go to school. Their idea is: children who like to study will naturally study hard, so why not force them to do jobs they don't want to do! Forced to do it will damage the child's self-esteem and characteristics. Parents never force their children to play games and enjoy sports, but fully respect their own wishes. They say that people's tastes, preferences and talents are inherently different. Children can do whatever they want, and the road of life should be left to the children themselves.

5, delimit rules must have

"Consequence" is not "punishment", but a natural consequence or compensatory action of wrong work. Don't eat at meal time, the consequence is that there is no food after meal time and you will be hungry; If you can't find littering toys, the consequence is that you can't play; In the circle time, you can interrupt at will and speak in secret, and the consequence is to separate the circle; If you tear up the book, the result will be taped back.