Education is discipline, education is passive, children are happiest around their parents, and they can be as naughty as they want. The average parent always advocates that "this child should go to school". On the first day of school, the children wore new clothes, shoes and bags. He was delighted to "go to school!" But when you come back from school, you may not want to be disciplined again unless the teacher coaxes you.
My understanding of "good education" is to stimulate people's interest and consciousness in learning, cultivate people's self-motivation, guide people to learn and constantly improve themselves. It is necessary to educate students subtly and let them be influenced subtly. In this regard, the role of example is very important, and words are not as good as examples.
I myself was influenced by my parents and teachers, and I changed from naughty to studious. Dad speaks well and eloquently, and Shen Bao's comments are one after another, ambitious and spend a lot of money. I admire and wonder, seeking the secret. My father said, "What's the secret? Read more books and read good books. " My mother always leafs through classical literature and modern novels when she is free, and reads them with relish. I learned from them and asked my father to collect books to read. It's really interesting. Since then, I have been fascinated by reading and reading good books.
I was a child in Qi Ming. Although I have not been baptized and infected by the love of my Catholic sister-in-law, I have known from an early age that "I love myself and others", just like the song "I want to love others, so I don't owe them deep trust; I want to love someone because someone cares. "
I have grown up since I entered Zhenhua. The first lady of the founder of Zhenhua Girls' School ruined the school. President Wang inherited his mother's ambition and devoted his life to running the school well, which deeply touched me. They are all role models in my heart.
Dad never taught us how to do it. It was through his actions that I realized the true meaning of the old adage that "wealth can't be lewd, poverty can't be moved, and power can't be bent". He was appointed as the president of the Capital High Procuratorate. Because he insisted on hearing the bribery case of Xu Shiying, the minister of communications, he would rather be dismissed by Beiyang government, which protects officials. When he was the president of the Jiangsu Provincial High Court, a warlord went to Shanghai, and the local gentry jointly ran a newspaper to welcome him. His father's name is also on the list of people who welcome him. Dad refused to welcome warlords, saying that "fame and fortune can't be faked", and immediately put a notice in the newspaper saying that he was not welcome. During the occupation of Shanghai, his father Lu Yu became an acquaintance of the traitors, turning a blind eye, so it was rumored that Yang was blind.
We never taught our daughter Qian Yuan. She saw that Zhong Shu and I both liked reading and learned from others. She took a book and followed the example, and gradually became enlightened. She learned a foreign language and had a difficult word. She looked through three dictionaries and didn't look them up. She came to ask her father, but Zhong Shu didn't tell her, so she kept looking. She found the fifth dictionary, and found it.
Good education, cultivate childlike innocence with children.
Zhong Shu never shows his father's majesty. He is more naughty than his daughter. When I was a child, A Yuan often said, "My father and I are best friends. We are two urchins of my mother. My father is not worthy to be my brother, he can only be my brother. "
Once, on a hot day, A Yuan slept with her belly exposed, and drew a big face on her belly. I scolded her and dared not draw any more. Before going to bed every day, he even buried "mines" in his daughter's bed, including toys, mirrors, brushes, even inkstones or many brushes. When her daughter exclaimed, he was so happy that he couldn't wait to put the broom and dustpan on her bed. The daughter must search carefully before going to bed and take out everything in the quilt. It's no fun to play with this kind of thing every day, but Zhong Shu enjoys it.
In addition to teasing her daughter, Zhong Shu also taught her English words with potential to be tapped, and also taught some French and German words, mostly rude words. When friends came, Zhong Shu let her daughter show off. "I answered like a starling, and the guests all laughed. I thought I was very knowledgeable, and I couldn't help feeling smug. My nose is flat. "Yuan wrote in the book.