-Let's talk about "EQ Education in Qitian Town" first.
The focus of Qitian education lies in "cultivating ideals", and the other is "spiritual education". In short, it is an education that awakens children's souls.
The left brain belongs to IQ and the right brain belongs to EQ. However, children need EQ education more than IQ education.
So what is the key to "EQ education"? It is to understand tolerance and resonate with children, comfort and guide children on the premise of respecting children again.
On the way to education, don't label, ignore, deny and let go.
-So how to cultivate "EQ education"?
There are five steps:
1. Pay attention to the child's mood.
2. When the child is emotionally unstable, seize the opportunity to approach the child and then educate the child.
3. Seriously understand the content of children's complaints and empathize with them.
4. Analyze and tell the children with appropriate words.
5. Think with your child and solve this problem.
Remember! Don't set standards for children's growth, and don't compare with other children! ! ! ! Accept the child's truest state.
-so how to guide?
First of all, we should have skin contact with children from an early age, such as hugging and touching. Let the child feel love first, and the child can open his heart. Otherwise, you can't feel love, how can you be emotionally stable! When the child is not doing well. Don't compare with other children, encourage them appropriately and tell them that you can't do it now, but you will get better and better and finish it slowly.
Then we should believe that children have unlimited potential and cultivate their communication and expression skills. Interpersonal relationships are more important. So how to cultivate children's communication and expression skills is actually very simple, that is, reading!
Respect, understand and encourage children.
The ultimate goal of spiritual education is to find children's ideals and goals and realize them. Cultivating children is beneficial to others' outlook on life. Virtue is also very important.
-EQ cultivation 2 1 rule
Six principles of communication barrier-free:
1 not only look at shortcomings, but also appreciate the advantages of children.
It depends on the state of the child's development process, not a certain moment.
Avoid perfectionism, that is, don't be too demanding.
Don't set too high a standard.
Don't concentrate on your studies.
6 Don't compare with other children.
Seven characteristics of excellent children
1 Rich information reception (reading books and newspapers)
2 foresight, that is, creativity and the ability to think new things.
3 flexibility
Have ambitions and dreams.
5. Broad vision
Practical efforts are to have a goal first and then work hard to achieve it.
Good luck
Don't stop children from doing what they want.
Let children learn to be considerate of others and pay attention to their own emotional development.
Learn to trust children and tell them I love you every day.
Eight-second hug: keep saying I love you when you hug.
5-minute suggestion: apologize to the child when he is asleep.
Learn to listen, and children will talk.
Finally, right brain education: meditation every day.