Reflect on whether your expectations for children are too high. In fact, in life, many parents have high expectations for their children, hoping that their children can become talents as soon as possible, so that even if they have completed their tasks, in fact, the most important thing for their children is not the final result, but the process. If the process goes smoothly, the children will certainly not be bad, so parents should reflect on whether their expectations for their children are too high. If they are too high, it may lead to any pressure on their children and even affect their physical and mental health. At this time, parents can also closely observe the child's movements to see if the child feels stressed. If there are no problems, it means that their education is still in place.
The second is to see if there is any problem with your own educational methods. Nowadays, parents actually don't know how to educate their children correctly, just according to the present situation. Scientific parenting? Concept to educate children, but the most important thing is to teach children in accordance with their aptitude. Perhaps many educational methods are not suitable for their children, so parents must learn to observe their children's behavior. In this process, they can reflect on whether there are problems in their educational methods. If there is a problem, they must correct it. If there is no problem, you can continue to optimize and make your children better and better.
See if the child feels happy. In fact, the most important thing for children in family education is to make them feel happy and safe. If all the children are gone, it means that the parents' educational methods have failed and need to be corrected. In the process of educating their children, parents should not always be too hasty? Success? The word education, we must know that the process can make people grow. Maybe sometimes children don't listen and parents don't beat and scold. Learning to handle and deal with it correctly is the right way.