If you live with your elders, you must discuss with the elderly at home and reach an agreement on educating your children. It's best for your children. As long as the purpose of being good for children is clearly explained to the elderly, most of them will still cooperate. This process may take some time, but you must persist in patiently communicating with your elders, clearly express your educational ideas for your children, and explain to the elderly how you want your children to grow up in the future.

Only when we have a clear training goal with our elders will the elderly think for themselves. After all, children are the most important. As we often say, most old people dote on their children? Every other generation? However, this is also the most unfavorable way of education for children's growth, especially when parents discipline their children. If the old man comes out to stop it, it will make the children form a wrong idea. Children will feel that grandparents are their own safe haven. No matter what they do, it is good to hide behind their elders.

Such a family education model can easily confuse children with right and wrong, especially when children are relatively young, which is a critical period for establishing concepts. Let children have the concept of distinguishing right from wrong and the determination to take responsibility, which has a great influence on their future growth. If possible, try to live separately from your parents, so that you can better educate yourself.

Whether it is the parents of the children or the elderly at home, this is the person closest to the children, and it is also the person who wants the children to be good. Since the purpose is the same, then a unified education method can be achieved, and parents can discipline their children in a more severe way. As long as the elders don't reverse the parents' mode of disciplining their children, it is no problem to pamper their children properly.