Why do you say that? Because many times, the way they deal with problems will make me feel ashamed.
For example, my sister mixed all the quilts and pillows on the bed last night and said it was her bed. Then I'm going to sleep and get my own quilt and pillow. She refused, saying that I had left her bed incomplete. It's very late at this time. It's time for bed. My sister makes me a little annoyed. I tried to reason with her, but she wouldn't listen. Instead, she cried.
It suddenly occurred to me that children at this stage have the concept of honesty. Do I think I should respect her integrity? I feel that she is a little sleepy at this time, and then what? I just want to keep her honest. Let's wait until she falls asleep, and then I'll put everything back.
At this time, my sister who was playing aside quit. She ran to her sister and said, Sister, I want to sleep. This is my quilt and pillow. My sister saw that I supported her, and she was very dissatisfied with my sister's claim to rights, and she cried even more.
But my sister doesn't care. She took out the quilt and said to her sister, I have a better idea. Then, she spread her sister's quilt wide and told her that your bed is wider so that you can sleep better. I looked at my sister, looked at my sister with small eyes and agreed. What my sister did was not my way of dealing with it at all, but she did solve it.
I'm really ashamed of myself. I am beyond doubt, and my ability to deal with problems is not as good as that of a six-and-a-half-year-old child. You see, I either stopped or compromised, but I didn't make a little change like my sister, so I let my sister accept it.
When they were quiet, my heart could not be calm, and I deeply felt that I was educated by them again. These two meatballs that fell from me seem to have come not to listen to my advice, but to educate me.
Sometimes, my sister will make my sister angry. I'm unfair to my sister, and I'm about to scold her. Sister has her own way to coax her sister, and she forgave her three times. I'm glad I didn't scold my sister so early. Anyway, they have their own modes and methods of getting along, and we adults really can't get involved.
Sometimes I am glad to catch up with the second child era and have two children. At first, I didn't consider whether it was hard or not. I just thought that the two children could play and communicate together. This is probably the biggest purpose of my two children.
Every time I watch them play together, I feel that two children will really make me pay more energy and have more money than raising one child, but there is really nothing to replace that kind of brotherhood.
More importantly, it is more important to test the ability of adults. Is it fair to do things Do you have any skills? Adults and children are also each other's mirrors. Sometimes I do something to my sister, and my sister will find an opportunity to tell me if I did it right. Because after all, there are not two people, but three people, so you have more "supervision".
So sometimes I really feel that I am often educated by them. I feel that I am not much better than them, but I have lived a few years longer than them. Very interesting feeling.