In the process of children's growth, mother is the key to education, and a mother's educational influence will be related to children's life. The following are my mother's skills in educating her children. Please refer to them.

Clarification rule

For many children, the process of making mistakes is actually a process of understanding rules and regulations. Therefore, when a child makes a mistake, adults should first find out whether the child understands the relevant social rules and regulations, and then judge whether to criticize the child.

Positive guidance

Parents should point out their children's mistakes in concise words, tell them that they are still lovable children as long as they are corrected, and guide them to develop in a correct and positive direction.

Focus on the fact/truth, not someone-business is business.

When parents criticize and educate their children, they should respect their personality and treat things and people differently. They should not deny their children's previous efforts because of one or two small mistakes, let alone make a big liquidation, and list their previous mistakes one by one, so that they will be criticized to pieces. As long as you clearly tell him that this thing is not done well and where it is wrong, and pay attention to correcting it later, it will be enough to let the children know their mistakes and achieve the purpose of education.

♀? Avoid public criticism

Public criticism often hurts children's self-esteem and is most likely to cause children's boredom. The previous case is the best evidence. Some parents think that criticizing children in front of others can better stimulate their self-esteem and stimulate them to correct their mistakes, but their hearts are fragile and often more vulnerable.

Affirm in criticism

Every child is eager to be appreciated and affirmed. When parents criticize their children, they should also try to find the bright spot in their mistakes and affirm their previous efforts and achievements. Affirmation in criticism is the most effective criticism, which can not only urge children to correct their mistakes, but also help them build up their self-confidence.

Don't miss the opportunity.

If a child makes a mistake, parents should point it out as soon as possible in order to really play a supervisory role. If the child's mistakes are serious, it is necessary to take cold treatment, but it should not be delayed for too long and miss the best opportunity for education.