First, care for children:
Let children cultivate love in caring, that is, to provide a good emotional environment for children and support them in an acceptable way.
Second, let children know themselves from the heart:
Always reflect on yourself, understand and know yourself from different angles, evaluate yourself objectively and position yourself correctly. Knowing the cause and effect of various feelings, we can clearly understand the gap between perception and behavior.
Third, cultivate children's good and stable emotions:
Everyone has emotions, which is normal and human nature. It is normal to have some bad emotions occasionally. Know what state and mood your emotions are in, and let children know that any bad emotions can be controlled, transformed and adjusted. It is necessary to correctly guide children to actively seek effective ways to control their emotions and consciously exercise restraint.
Fourth, lead by example:
Cultivating children's high EQ is not only to instill theoretical knowledge, but also to set an example of what to do and what not to do. Only when we parents know how to set an example can we convince our children of our education.
Five, learn to empathize:
Empathy is to know how to think from other people's perspective, understand other people's ideas, and feel the same. When we can't take empathy as the premise when educating children, we can't really understand their real thoughts, let alone enter their inner world!