Many middle-aged men will recall that they often faced sexual problems when they were young, and as a result, they had a heavy mental burden and could not breathe for a long time. This is a very common phenomenon in the historical background of sexual imprisonment at that time. In order to make their son become a man smoothly and not repeat the historical tragedy, they are willing to start with family sex education so that children can obtain scientific, timely, moderate and appropriate sexual knowledge at all stages of development. This starting point is undoubtedly good, but it is not as easy to practice as imagined. Therefore, following some basic principles will be of great help to dads.
First of all, the most important premise is to handle the relationship between father and son. Good sex education needs to establish a relationship of love and respect between father and son.
If a "father" always leaves a rude, indifferent, stern and impatient impression on his children, and they are not pleasing to the eye, and the children try to stay away from their father like mice see cats, how can they talk openly and equally between father and son?
Secondly, fathers must play games and talk with their children, listen to their voices, acknowledge their hobbies and feelings, share their interests and happiness, even their hobbies, and support their hobbies with respect.
Some men mistakenly believe that since we want to cultivate boys' courage and determination, we can't get too close to them. In fact, boys, like girls, also need physical intimacy, especially from their fathers. This warm touch will help them form a sense of security, let them understand that people should establish emotional ties and learn how to love others. Physical intimacy is the basic means to show and convey love and support.
Thirdly, don't think that sex education is about sex. Children generally don't wake up one morning and suddenly ask a lot of sexual questions.
They will always ask all kinds of sex-related questions when they grow up. Their problems gradually emerged. Sex education for children should follow the camera. Of course, the sooner the better, the more real the better.
Finally, it is worth pointing out that it takes time to educate love and cultivate the affection between father and son. No matter how busy you are, you should take time to spend with your son. Education without fatherly love is not a comprehensive education.