May 9, 2022 to 15 is the first family education publicity week in China.

The quality of family education is very important for children's growth.

At the same time, family education is also the self-growth of parents.

The teacher of Haidu Academic Affairs Office interviewed Wang Chang, a senior teacher of Fujian Preschool Teachers College, about common family education problems.

Studying together, what should parents pay attention to during the critical period of children's growth?

Q: What if children like mobile phones and are addicted to the Internet?

Wang Shu said that children playing mobile phones is not a problem of indulging in the internet.

First of all, if children are very young, parents should set an example. Don't hold a mobile phone at home.

Parents can agree not to bring their mobile phones into the bedroom when they sleep, or not to chat with their children before going to bed, so that the parent-child relationship can be brought closer without affecting their sleep.

If children are mentally ill and addicted to mobile phones, Wang Yun suggested that they can cultivate hobbies and enrich their after-school life. "Children are generally more self-disciplined when they have money."

Q: Is the child introverted and rigid and not cheerful?

Yan Wang said that people are introverted and extroverted, so we don't need to turn introversion into extroversion.

On the other hand, introverts should realize that the rigid side also has many advantages, such as being careful and calm.

"Children have their own characteristics. Instead of thinking about changing personality, it is better to let parents play their children's instinct and let their children shine. In this way, children will feel more fulfilled.

"Wang Shu said.

Q: Is the child unconscious and has no learning plan?

Teacher Wang believes that the unconsciousness of learning can be viewed from two situations. First, children are generally responsible for all aspects of learning. However, parents must urge you to do your homework. In this case, parents can agree on the time of homework with their children. For example, you can relax and have fun after finishing your homework.

The other is the heat for three minutes, and it will "float" after a while.

"In this case, it is the best way to make a plan and complete the completed tasks in several stages.

Like what to do on Monday and what to finish on Tuesday.

Children can be rewarded for what they have accomplished and punished for what they have not accomplished.

"Wang Shu said.

Wang Shu also said that different strategies need to be taken for children at different stages.

"It is very meaningful for children to complete the task as planned and give the agreed material rewards.

Moreover, senior children should have many spiritual rewards. Parents' smiles and affirmation will give them confidence.

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Q: How can children master more life skills?

Teacher Wang said that parents now pay attention not only to their children's learning, but also to their character and life ability. This is very worth advocating.

Regarding the mastery of life skills, children should first know what life skills are.

From an early age, it includes self-service skills, housework skills and interpersonal skills.

Teacher Wang suggested that parents should first learn how to be a man, take on family responsibilities, actively do housework at home, set a good example for their children, and let them learn to be responsible for housework themselves.

In addition, Wang Yun said, housework should also have stages.

"For example, washing dishes today and washing dishes tomorrow is not for children to do all the housework, but for children to do part of it, so that the whole family can do it together, so that children can have a sense of accomplishment while undertaking housework, and at the same time slightly reduce the burden on their parents.

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