1, learn to be friends with children.
Democratic education is the best way of education. Parents should break traditional thinking, respect children's personality and willingness to choose, listen to children's ideas, and understand children's ideas and likes and dislikes. Parents can keep abreast of their children's ideological trends by communicating with their children in time.
2. Help children analyze the pros and cons.
Many children are ignorant in this period and have no idea about many things in the future. In fact, parents can give guidance, make a long-term plan for what children like, and with the harm of puppy love, children will naturally understand this truth.
3. Parents should learn to let go and let their children establish self-awareness and independence, which is conducive to the formation of children's values.
And to truly become friends with children, we must walk into their lives. When parents participate in their lives, but do not play the role of high-profile preaching, it will be more conducive to let children trust their parents and regard them as friends.
Parents should strengthen sex education for their children to prevent them from doing anything out of line.
If the child is in puppy love, parents should tell the child frankly the matters needing attention in the process of communication, educate the child to manage his own behavior and prevent the occurrence of sexual behavior.
5. Ask the teacher for help.
It is not terrible for children to fall in love. The terrible thing is that sometimes parents don't know what to do. If parents can put down their face and ask the teacher for help in time, the teacher can help monitor their children's performance in school and feedback their children's performance in time. Parents can also better control their children's love progress, help them pull back from the edge of the cliff, and prevent them from going downhill and getting hotter.
The reasons why junior high school girls fall in love;
1, physiological and psychological factors.
Adolescent girls are in adolescence, their sexual organs gradually mature, their sexual psychology changes dramatically, and their sexual consciousness is hazy. The curiosity and mystery between the opposite sex are increasing day by day, and they can't put it down. If they meet the right conditions, puppy love may happen at any time.
2. Social factors.
With the development of science and technology, there are many media in the society, among which unhealthy books, periodicals and CDs are easy to mislead adolescent children. The popularity of telephones and computers, the temptation of Internet cafes, game halls and dance halls, and some unhealthy social atmosphere all have an impact on the thoughts of adolescent children.
3. School factors.
Some schools and teachers take an evasive attitude towards the problem of adolescent girls' puppy love and turn a deaf ear to the phenomenon of children's puppy love, which leads to the spread of puppy love in schools. More often, they take another evasive attitude. Once any trace of puppy love is found, it will be indiscriminately characterized as puppy love, and even publicly punished, which will often seriously hurt children's self-esteem.