There are many parents who forbid their children whether they are happy or not.
There are also many parents who often try to coax him out of thin air. Later, when children saw your shortcomings, they didn't believe you and learned to cheat.
Principle 2: Parents should explore the reasons why children do evil.
Generally speaking, children will never do evil for no reason. The cause of evil is probably caused by the environment.
If we can find out the cause of the child's evil and shovel it out, then the child will not do evil again in the future.
Principle 3: Parents should calmly examine whether a child is at fault before punishing him.
If he is really wrong, punish him; If he is not at fault, he should not be punished.
Principle 4: Don't punish children in front of others.
Most children especially like to take care of face. His parents scolded him in front of others. He thought he would resent his parents because he was greatly humiliated.
There are many children who feel unlucky when they are scolded for the first time. If his parents often scold him in front of others, he will not be ashamed and gradually become an urchin.
Principle 5: It is not appropriate to beat and scold children in the morning and evening.
To be exact, parents should not beat their children, even if they want to beat and scold, they should not beat and scold sooner or later. If you beat and scold him in the morning, he will have a hard day; If you beat and scold him at night, he won't sleep well all night.
Principle 6: Parents should not take it out on their children.
Generally speaking, when a person has something on his mind, he is most likely to take it out on others, especially children.
Principle 7: When parents punish their children, they should pay more attention to what they did wrong and less attention to others, so as to give them a new path and preserve their personality.
Principle 8: When you beat and scold, don't help others to say "poor!" Poor thing! "If you wait, don't convince the child that he is right and his attacker is wrong.
Principle 9: When children do something wrong, parents should not blame others just because they want to please their children.
Principle 10: Parents should not use their emotions to dominate their children's actions and drive them like cattle and horses.
Children's emotions should not be allowed to dominate their actions, so that children can get this kind of "filial father" and "filial mother", become favored children and bully them.