Low voice education is the best tutor for parents to give their children.

Low-voice education refers to an educational method that is opposite to educating children loudly.

Many parents are often at a loss for the poor effect of disciplining their children. Whether you are endless persuasion and education, or make a hullabaloo about imperative education, children will completely ignore you.

If children who do something wrong are often reprimanded loudly, it will not only have no effect, but will have a negative impact on their character growth and mental health. At this time, the exam will be changed to low-key education.

The scientific basis of low voice education

Psychologists have studied what things should be expressed in what tone, and found that different tones will receive different effects when dealing with the same thing.

Adults criticize children, and it is more acceptable to keep your voice down. This is because:

1. A deep voice can make people more rational and calm, and it can also make children resist, and the rebellious psychological defense line is relaxed, which is conducive to communication.

2. Criticizing children in a low voice can not only concentrate their hearing, but also pre-emptively prevent children from using high notes. In life, we often see that adults really scold children, and the voice of children's resistance is not low. The emotions of both sides are getting more and more excited. Finally, the adults were angry and the children were not convinced.

3. A deep voice can drive away anger. Parents are the teachers who have taught for the longest time in their children's lives. Adults' words and deeds have the greatest influence on children. Full of anger, not calm, loudly scolding the children's parents, will certainly have a subtle influence on the children's personality.

Educating parents in a low voice should do this:

1. When criticizing children, lower your voice and speak quietly, which can make people more rational and calm down. It can also make children resist, and the rebellious psychological defense line is relaxed, which is conducive to communication. In life, I often see adults scolding children loudly, and the voice of children's resistance is not low. The two sides became more and more excited, and finally the adults had enough, and the children were not convinced.

Many parents find it difficult to control themselves from criticizing their children. Therefore, please think twice before you speak, and use appropriate tone and wording, the effect will be better. For example, "I love you, but I can't accept your behavior" will be difficult at first, but after a while, the children will naturally understand what you mean.

3. Explain your expectations to your child, such as taking your child to the supermarket, telling him not to tamper with the goods and warning him of the consequences if he violates them. You should carry it out from beginning to end, don't threaten loudly.

4. Don't hurt your child's self-esteem, talk about things, don't vent your feelings for your child at will, and don't use words that hurt your child's self-esteem. Every parent wants their children to be successful, but beating and scolding education is definitely not the best way and will not last long. Every child wants to be respected by others, including parents, and this respect and trust will make children feel confident and be an important driving force for their progress.

5. Speaking is an art..

Think of what many people have heard and post it here. I hope everyone, like me, can remember them and teach them when talking to children and educating them:

Urgent, speak slowly;

Major events, clearly stated;

Small things, said humorously;

If you are not sure, be cautious;

Don't talk nonsense about things that didn't happen;

Don't talk nonsense about what you can't do;

Hurtful words can't be said;

Hate things, right things are not people;

Happy things, depending on the occasion.