1 1- 12 What should I do? Children lie because they are afraid of being scolded by their parents. This is a very common phenomenon. If children often do this, it is very bad. If you are interested, let's take a look at what to do at the age of112 and related information.

1 1 12 years old What should I do if I lie? 1 1. Ask the child why.

I don't know. A child lying can't solve the problem. You must calm yourself down and ask the child why he lied. I believe that if your attitude is good enough and the child doesn't resist, he will tell you the real reason.

2. What if a ten-year-old child loves to lie?

Children must lie about something, perhaps for fear of being told, perhaps to reduce trouble, perhaps for their own benefit. You must know what happened. Only by knowing the specific circumstances of the matter can we analyze the specific circumstances, find out the main reasons for lying, and then solve them in a targeted manner.

3. Explain the pros and cons to your children.

The mind of a 10-year-old child is mature enough. You should communicate with your child more and tell him the stakes of lying. I believe your patience has touched him to some extent and let him know the right and wrong content and the serious consequences of lying.

The reason why children lie

First, lying for self-protection

Second, lying because of imagination.

Third, lie to please adults.

Fourth, lie to win praise.

Lie, hoping to attract attention.

1 1 12 years old What should I do if I lie? This kind of egoistic nonsense often appears in young children. Any mother of preschool children will tell you that two or three-year-old children have been able to tell some simple lies. They may deny the bad things they have done or fight for what they want.

It is meaningless to punish children for telling lies, because they don't know that their actions are wrong. Suppose a child tugs at the cat's tail and claims that his imaginary friend did it. The best way to educate him is to tell him that cats also have pain. Because if you blame children of this age, there is no doubt that you will only get another lie.

Preschool children's fantasies about "big legends" may be out of fun or their own wishful thinking (such as Lucy's sister). It is unusual for children to insist on the truth of these stories. Professor Berger said, "These are not true lies. You should regard them as the richest, most prominent and most important elements in your child's heart. "

If a child's absurd story makes you feel anxious, it is important to know the child's attitude. If the child looks happy, it means that the characters in the story are very important to him. The "strangeness" in the eyes of adults is probably just a way of thinking for children to deal with problems. After Lucy learned that grandpa had died, several "sisters" also died suddenly. She talked about it in a mature and regretful tone. "This must be an epidemic."

How to educate children to lie?

Meet children's excessive demands

Children always have needs. If it goes too far, then you should educate him. If it is in line with the child's nature or the characteristics of this age, you should satisfy the child, so that his heart will be satisfied and there will be no more dissatisfaction.

Tell a story to a child

We have many stories about lying since ancient times, such as fables. We can vividly explain these stories to children, so that children can realize the harm of lying, so that their behavior can be improved slowly.

Parents lead by example.

Parents can't always lie at home, so children will follow your example and think you are doing the right thing. Over time, he can't change this problem, and your reprimand can't convince him, because you didn't set a good example.

Communicate with the teacher

It is necessary to communicate with teachers more, understand the learning and performance of children in institutions, and understand the various situations of children in institutions anytime and anywhere. Only in this way can we better deal with children's education problems, and also have a perfect connection with teachers to better educate children.

1 1 12 years old What should I do if I lie? 3 1. Many parents are slow to respond to this performance. They don't know whether what the child said is true or not. There are also some parents who know that their parents are lying and see that their children have not caused much harm, and they will not hold their children accountable. This is not right. Parents must stop their children from telling lies as soon as they find them, and they can't let them develop.

Parents should learn to tell whether their children are lying. Even if the child is a white lie, you need to learn to educate the child, even if you really correct the child's habit of lying. Tell the child that this is wrong. Let children know their mistakes in time.

3. Parents should learn to communicate with their children, and children will usually say it unconsciously after lying. When communicating with parents, they will admit their actions. So children of this age need to communicate. Let the baby tell the truth in the process of communication, and then tell the baby the harm of telling lies. Babies in this period are easy to satisfy. As long as parents can help their babies fulfill their wishes, they won't lie again.

1. Parents should not play the role of prosecutors.

Don't blindly ask your child to confess, sometimes you can have a muddle-along attitude, but you must remind your child that lying is not good in the future. Parents know the truth and just want to save his face. I hope he will tell the truth next time and his parents will help him solve it together. If something really happens, you should be responsible and have the courage to admit your mistake, instead of hiding and lying to avoid responsibility.

Second, parents talk calmly and don't turn.

When the teacher tells us that our children failed in the math exam, please don't say, "Did you pass the math exam?" ..... Are you sure, do you know the consequences of lying? Well, this lie can't help you! Your teacher has called me, and your exam is terrible! "

Such an answer will not only prevent the child from lying, but also create opportunities for the child to lie and inspire him to "lie defensively." So you have to tell your child honestly, "The math teacher told me that you failed the exam, and we are worried and don't know how to help you."

And parents should not be hysterical and full of preaching. Be practical and practical, and let the children know that there is no need to lie to us.

Third, never ask "why"

For children, "why" means parents' disapproval, disappointment and unhappiness, thus reminding them of their past blamed memories. A simple "why are you doing this?" It may make children feel, "Why are you doing this?