1, find out the reasons for children's emotional changes. By the fourth grade or so, children will have words like "annoying" and "annoying", and the number of such words will continue to rise. In fact, children's troubles are not only aimed at toys, clothes, hairstyles, or extracurricular reading materials. What they need is the understanding and respect of their parents. When a child is truly understood and respected, all his negative and rebellious emotions will disappear. They are in a period of sudden emotional change, easy to get angry and angry, but also easy to be moved. Parents' understanding and respect can impress them more than giving them precious gifts.

2. Allow children to express their emotions moderately. It is worth noting that the focus of children aged 65,438+00 has shifted from family to school, and the relationship and friendship between classmates will become an important factor affecting children's spirit. From a psychological point of view, the scientific method should be this: in the face of children's sadness or weakness, parents must not scold them, and let their children vent their depression to the fullest. As long as children vent enough, they will naturally restore their emotional balance. Of course, if children need parents' help, parents should also comfort them in time, feel their children's emotions with the same psychology, and strive to arouse their emotional resonance, thus alleviating their bad emotions. At this time, it is a good idea to allow children to express their emotions moderately. (Prepare a sandbag for children and allow them to vent their emotions on the sandbag; Allow children to keep small animals, and encourage children to talk to small animals when they are unwilling to talk to their parents; Encourage children to run and exercise to vent their emotions. These are all good ways to help children vent their emotions, but the most important thing is that parents should understand and agree with their children's emotions and allow them to express their sadness and weakness freely.

3. Cultivate children's ability to control emotions. The fourth grade is a period of sudden changes in children's emotions and emotions, and it is also a crucial period to cultivate children's ability to control emotions. At this time, children have their own ideas and obvious ability and hobbies to distinguish right from wrong. Their limited communication skills and methods, or their inability to communicate with their parents, are precisely the reasons for their emotional deterioration. In order to cultivate children's ability to control their emotions, parents should first make their children understand this: it doesn't matter if they have negative emotions, say it out and see what parents can do.