1. Parents are children's guides and their first teachers.
People often say that children are replicas and parents are originals. In the process of children's growth, parents' every move affects children, and children will unconsciously imitate their parents. Therefore, in the process of children's growth, parents' companionship and guidance are indispensable.
Educated parents are "sneaking into the night with the wind, moistening things quietly", and can seize the little things in life, look for opportunities, interpret them in time, and instill the correct three views. For example, during the epidemic, we can make use of the hot news of network celebrities or celebrities to discuss the topic of "heroes" with our children, tell stories of Zhong Nanshan, Zhang Wenhong and others, and understand the spirit of telling the truth, doing practical things and benefiting mankind embodied by Academician Zhong Nanshan, which is the real hero. For another example, if you take your child by bus, you can set an example and give your seat to the elderly; When playing in the park, pick up the garbage on the ground and understand that you must not litter, so be a good example for your children.
2. Parents have their own emphasis in family education and penetrate each other.
As the saying goes, the jade is not cut and the instrument is not cut. Children are a work of art and need to be carved slowly. The physiological characteristics of parents and the stage of children's growth make parents play different roles and assume different responsibilities in the process of children's growth. For example, the carefulness and tenacity of a child's character are taught by his mother in life, while the child's strength and adventurous spirit are imperceptibly produced by his father in life.
In real families, many fathers are "cloud dads", and under the pretext of "making money to support their families", they put all the heavy responsibility of educating their children on their mothers, especially boys' families. The lack of father education in life makes children lack masculinity and become more feminine. Therefore, in a boy's family, the father's education must be indispensable, but the company of parents is not the primary and secondary.
It is best for mom and dad to complement each other and integrate with each other. Dad usually shows perseverance, courage and courage to take responsibility. These excellent qualities are very beneficial to the growth of boys.