When communicating with children, avoid saying "no" to anything. When you don't allow one thing, thoughts and emotions are psychologically contradictory, and there will be confusion between them. Turn "don't do" into "can do" and you will increase your strength.
To learn to pay attention to children's advantages and show them, parenting education psychologists say that children's advantages can be made out of nothing and can guide training. It's not that children don't have advantages, but that we don't find the advantages of children with the right eyes.