With the opening of the second child policy, more and more families have two or more children. The increase of family members may bring endless joy to a family, but it also brings the biggest trouble. When children have conflicts and quarrels, they don't know how to deal with them and how to balance their fair love for the two children. This problem is particularly obvious when the age gap between the two children is small. First of all, you must be calm when you encounter problems. From the bottom of your heart, you know that children are your pride and should be one.

First, when there are contradictions, when several children in the family quarrel, most parents will indiscriminately scold and accuse the older children, always saying that you are a brother and sister and you have to make way for your brother and sister. Parents should not educate their children like this. The eldest son or daughter is also her own child. Doing so will make children feel wronged, and it will also make you and your younger children become pampered and arrogant. Doing something wrong has nothing to do with age, and children's education should start from an early age. If a child does something wrong and is always tolerated by another person, such a child will grow up unscrupulously, regardless of the other person's feelings. Therefore, parents must treat their children equally. When encountering problems, we should understand the reasons for their quarrel, so as to effectively solve the problems. At the same time, they should pay attention to the tone and way of talking to their children, and the most important thing is the volume.

Second, when buying daily necessities, the two bowls of water are flat. In real life, although it has reached the new era of 2 1 century, many family concepts are still traditional, which will be reflected when buying daily necessities for children. Girls at home will be much worse than boys in terms of food, clothing, housing and transportation, which will make girls at home feel extremely unfair and cause great trauma to their fragile hearts. They clearly remember their parents' partiality from an early age. Children are still very young, and their parents' love for them will only be measured by price. In this regard, parents should pay special attention to equality as much as possible.

Family education has always been an unavoidable topic for father and mother after dinner. It is our first time to be a parent of a child, and it is also our first time to be a parent. Both sides have no experience. When we encounter irreconcilable problems, we should consider each other's difficulties from each other's standpoint, so that communication between children and parents will be easier.