Mr Tao Xingzhi is also a great educator and thinker in contemporary China. When he was the principal, one day he saw a boy trying to hit another boy with a brick, so he stopped the boy and asked him to go to the principal's office.

When Tao Xingzhi knew the whole story and returned to the principal's office, the boy who wanted to hit his classmate was already waiting there, so Tao Xingzhi took out the first piece of candy and said to him, "This is a reward for you, because you got to the office before me."

Then he took out the second candy and said, "This is for you, too. I won't let you hit your classmates. You stop at once, which shows that you respect me very much. "

The child took the second candy in doubt, and then Tao Xingzhi took out the third candy and said, "As far as I know, you hit your classmate because he bullied that girl, which shows that you have a sense of justice. I will reward you with another candy."

At this time, the boy was moved to tears and said regretfully, "Principal, I was wrong. If my classmates are wrong again, I can't take this approach. "

So, Tao Xingzhi took out the fourth candy and said to him, "You already know that you are wrong, and I will reward you with another candy!" " ! My candy came out and our conversation was over. "

Educational enlightenment:

First, when a child makes a mistake, he should first understand the cause and effect of the matter, realize where the child is right and wrong, and make a comprehensive judgment instead of jumping to conclusions.

Second, tolerant and positive education is far more effective than reprimanding criticism. It is really important for children to admit their mistakes, but it is more important for them to deeply reflect on their mistakes from the heart, instead of giving in and passively accepting adult education to some extent.