Although the name of this group sounds quite antagonistic, they emphasized in their founding declaration: "Opposition is not an end, but a positive means, in order to further socialize individuals and improve their own quality. We are not unfilial, we just want to live a better life. On the premise of filial piety, resist the bondage and harm of decadent, ignorant and unreasonable parents. This requires skill and we will discuss it together. "
Friends, let's discuss it together. In order for individuals to further develop into socialization and achieve the perfection of their own quality. It's not unfilial, we just want a better life. On the premise of filial piety, resist the bondage and harm of decadent, ignorant and unreasonable parents. This purpose is good. The phenomenon mentioned by my friend does exist, and I feel the same way. This is also the reason why I unanimously call on schools of all levels and types to run parent schools well. I also see that many parents are not parents now, and they are not worthy of being parents. I am also reflecting on this issue. What is the root of the problem? I think all this lies in education. This education is of course a big education, including family education, school education, social education and religious education. From a historical point of view, the failure of this kind of education began in the period of 19 15 China Cultural Renaissance. In the period of cultural renaissance, it should be explained that cultural renaissance has played a positive role in promoting China society, but we should also see that she has something negative. At that time, some so-called thinkers and educators studied western ideology and culture in an all-round way and totally denied China's cultural spirit. Therefore, from then on, China culture was basically out of date. As a result, several generations in the past 200 years did not understand education, especially many people born in the 1950s during the Cultural Revolution, and they did not understand family education or even school education, which led to this phenomenon. Therefore, we should learn a lesson and resist the bondage and harm of decadent, ignorant and unreasonable parents on the premise of filial piety. Please watch the video of what our ancestors said 2 10 years ago on Youku. The root of this phenomenon is the so-called cultural renaissance people 2 10 years ago, not the fault of parents now. Today's parents are also victims, especially those born after 50, who have experienced various political movements, natural and man-made disasters and various changes in the development process of China. At the same time, they are also our negative teachers. Our younger generation should reflect and think seriously like you. But what I want to say is that your intentions are good, but some expressions are inappropriate. For example, the proposition that "parents are evil" is one-sided and does not conform to the facts. First of all, literally, parents cannot be said to be evil. Parents cover a wide range. Not all parents are evil. Do not be blind. In a word, there are still some excellent parents, such as Lu Qin, Chen Dahui and now Guo Jicheng. Second; The source of this idea is the novel Suicide Club by British writer Nick Hornby, which is a western idea, but not the mainstream thought in the west. It doesn't conform to China's national conditions, and we can't completely copy it. Some of our netizens, such as friends like Zhang Kun, don't listen to other people's advice. We should sum up historical experience and lessons, stop following the old path of people during the Cultural Renaissance, and have a comprehensive and positive thinking. I want to forward an article to you here. Before you read it, I'd like to introduce a passage from Shakespeare, the most outstanding dramatist in the history of English literature, so as not to make mistakes, he said. Never judge what you don't know, or you may make up for your mistakes with your life. Then introduce to you what Sun Yat-sen said; Buddhism is the mother of philosophy, and studying Buddhism can make up for the bias of science. Buddhism is education and Buddhism is culture. If a scientist does not understand Buddhist culture, philosophy and art, he is not a qualified scientist. There are many such words, please search for great people and celebrities in Buddhism. No more forwarding. The Buddha said in "Buddha says parents are hard to repay"; The Buddha told Ananda, "Now listen carefully. I should explain to you that it is very hard for a mother to get pregnant in October. In the mother's womb, in the first month, if the grass is covered with pearls, it will gather in the future in the morning and disappear at noon. When the mother is pregnant, in the middle of the second month, it is like solidification. When my mother was pregnant, in the third month, it was like solidification. When my mother was pregnant, in the middle of the fourth month, she was a little human. When the mother was pregnant, in the fifth month, the child was in the mother's belly and gave birth to five children. How much is five? The head is a cell, two elbows and two knees, each of which is a cell, making five cells. When the mother was pregnant, in mid-June, the child was in the mother's belly, and the six essences were in full bloom. Which one is six? The eye is one essence, the ear is two essence, the nose is three essence, the mouth is four essence, and the tongue is five essence, that is, six essence. When the mother was pregnant, in the middle of July, the child was in the mother's belly, giving birth to 360 joints and giving birth to 84 thousand milk. When the mother is pregnant, in mid-August, she has nine tricks to be wise. When the mother is pregnant, in mid-September, the child is in the mother's belly, absorbing food and producing various qualities, such as peaches, pears, garlic, fruits and the essence of five grains. In its mother body, raw dirt is downward, and cooked dirt is upward, just like the ground. There are three mountains, the first is Sumeru, the second is Yeshan, and the third is Blood Mountain. This mountain, once collapsed, became one, and the mother condensed into food for the fetus. When the mother is pregnant, in the middle of 10, all the children are finished one by one and then born. If you are absolutely a dutiful son, then you will be born safely with your fists crossed, and your mother will not suffer anything. If the child is definitely the son of the five transgressions, it will damage the mother's fetus, pull the mother's heart, step on the mother's bone, like a thousand knives, but also like a thousand knives to save the heart. It's so hard to give birth to this child. More analysis, there are ten great grace:
First, the guardian's grace of pregnancy; Second, the pain in childbirth; Third, when you have children, you forget your troubles; Fourth, bitter taste and sweet taste; Fifth, if you go back to work, you will get wet; Sixth, breastfeeding, nurturing grace; Seventh, washing is not clean; Eighth, remember the grace of travel; Ninth, deep compassion; Tenth, what kind of pity.
First, Huai Huzan said
Because of the heavy karma, I came to raise my mother's fetus, which was born more than a month ago.
As heavy as a mountain, stop the wind and rain, don't hang up your clothes, and be a mirror dust.
Second, the labor suffering praise yue
Ten months pregnant, dystocia is coming, and Chao is like a serious illness, as if he is dizzy every day.
It's hard to tell you what you are afraid of. Your heart is full of tears. You tell your relatives with sadness, but you are afraid of death and invasion.
Third, the son forget sorrow praise yue
When a loving mother gives birth to a child, her internal organs are always open, her body and mind are bored, and her blood is like killing sheep.
Hearing that the child is healthy, my joy is more frequent. I am glad that my sadness will come back, and my pain is heartbreaking.
Fourth, swallow the bitter pill and praise it:
When parents are affectionate and caring, they don't worry or frown.
Love is unbearable, kindness is doubly sad, but it makes children full and loving mothers not hungry.
The fifth time, dry and wet praise yue
A mother is willing to wet her child and dry it. Her breasts are full of hunger and thirst, and her sleeves cover the cold.
Lian Heng abandoned the pillow, which made the child happy, but made the child stable. The loving mother did not seek peace.
Sixth, praise breastfeeding and parenting.
A loving mother is like the earth, strict father is worthy of heaven, and the kindness of a loving father is equal.
I don't hate it, I don't hate it, I don't hate it, I don't think I have a child, I cherish it all day.
Seventh, the washing is not clean.
It turned out to be hibiscus. He is healthy, full of energy and has a new face.
The kindness deeply destroyed the jade capacity, washed away the Panlong, only pitied men and women, and the loving mother changed her face.
Eighth, travel well praise yue
Death is unbearable, but it is also painful to leave real life. The son is out of the mountain, and the mother remembers it in a foreign land.
Heart to heart day and night, tears flow thousands of lines, such as apes crying, inch by inch broken liver and intestines.
Back to the ninth, deep sorrow praise yue
Parents' kindness is very heavy, but it is difficult to repay them deeply. Children are willing to suffer for them, and children are not at ease with their mothers.
Wen Daoyuan went and felt sorry for his son. He was lying cold at night, and the men and women were temporarily hard, and his mother was sad.
Tenth, what is pity and praise?
Parents are so grateful that they can't rest, so they sit up and follow each other.
My mother is one hundred years old, and she worries about eighty children. To know how to love and break, we should separate from each other at the beginning of life. "
The Buddha told Ananda, "My audience was born. Although I am virtuous, my heart is stupid. I have never considered my parents. I am kind, I don't respect, I am ungrateful, I am heartless, and I am unfilial. A Niang is pregnant, in mid-October, fidgeting, such as being burdened and unable to eat, such as a patient with a long illness. When the full moon is born, all kinds of pains may be impermanent, such as killing pigs and sheep and bleeding everywhere. You suffer so much, having a baby will make you bitter, you will be educated, and you will not be clean. You will not be afraid of hard work, endure the cold and heat, lie down when you are dry, and sleep when you are wet. In the past three years, I have been drinking my mother's white blood, baby boys and even adults, teaching etiquette, benevolence, marriage, planning, career, hardship, hard work and kindness. Men and women are sick, and parents are frightened and worried, and they are terminally ill, which is regarded as common. When the child is cured, the mother is cured. If you are brought up in this way, you will grow up very early. When you grow up, you are unfilial. Respect your relatives and words, don't know how to obey, deal with rudeness, and look at each other with evil eyes. Bullying uncles, beating and cursing brothers, destroying family ties, and being rude. Although I studied, I didn't follow the model training, and I didn't follow my parents' instructions. When brothers talk together, they break the rules every time. Going in and out, not opening the hall, arrogant in words and deeds, good at doing things. The parents reprimanded and punished, and the uncle saidno. The children pitied and respected others, grew up gradually, were ruthless and uncoordinated, and did not give in to losses and violations, but hated them. Abandon all relatives and friends and cling to the wicked. After a long period of practice, you will realize what is wrong. Or be lured, flee to other places, disobey parents and leave home as soon as possible. Either because of the agent, or because of the political line, or because of the marriage, he was banned by Sri Lanka and did not return to China for a long time. Or in a foreign land, you can't be cautious, be murdered, suddenly take the bait, bear criminal responsibility, and go to jail. Or prisoners who suffer from patients, difficulties and hunger are left untreated, despised and entrusted to them to abandon the streets. So at the end of his life, there was no one to treat him, and he was swollen and rotten. The Japanese aggressors were in a storm and there were no bones left. Send him to his hometown, he will be good with his relatives, he will be good, he will violate his kindness. He will never know his parents, he will always worry, or he will be blind because of crying. Or because of sadness, qi pharynx becomes a disease; Or fate remembers the child, decaying and dying, and the soul is like a ghost, never leaving. Or after hearing about children, they don't respect their studies, their friends pursue heresy, hooligans are stubborn, their hobbies are useless, they fight and steal, invade the countryside, drink alcohol, rape innocent people, bring up tired brothers, annoy their parents, come back in the morning and evening, don't ask for respect, move to stop being cold and warm, always help attendants, and recommend pillows on the bed. I don't know these things.
Or a lonely father and a widowed mother, living alone in an empty hall, like a guest, living in his house, cold and hungry, I have never heard of it. It is better to cry day and night than to sigh. I should serve my purpose and support my relatives. If that generation is cheating others, it's nothing. Every time, they are ashamed and afraid of being laughed at. Or holding rich food, raising a wife and children, forgetting labor and avoiding humiliation; Wives and concubines are bound and obedient, while elders are angry but not afraid. Or be a woman, adapt to others, and be filial when you are unmarried; Marriage is over and unfilial is increasing. Parents are slightly angry, that is, resentment; The husband beat and scolded, endured it willingly, took a different surname from his family, and was deeply attached to it, but thought it was sparse. Or with her husband, in a foreign country, she left her parents, unwilling to admire them, broke the news, and there was no news. She let her parents cling to their stomachs and could not settle down for a moment. Like hanging upside down, she thought about meeting each other every time, such as longing for future generations and endless care. Parents' kindness is boundless, and filial piety is hard to report. "There are many Buddhist classics in this respect, such as the Tripitaka. Please forward this passage to everyone first. Please read carefully, think and think again. Let's learn from Buddha together. The grace of parents, as the Buddha said; If someone, with his left shoulder as the father and his right shoulder as the mother, grinds his skin to the bone, cuts his teeth to the marrow, and goes around Mount Sumi and bleeds to death, he still can't repay his parents' affectionate great kindness; If someone is robbed by hunger and does his best for his parents, he will be cut to pieces like dust. After hundreds of robberies, I will still be unable to repay my parents' affectionate great kindness; If someone, for the sake of their parents, holds a sharp knife and gouges out their eyes, they can't repay their parents' deep kindness after a hundred robberies; If someone, for the sake of his parents, also cut his heart with a sharp knife, bleeding everywhere, painstakingly, after hundreds of robberies, still can't repay his parents' affectionate great kindness; If someone, for the sake of their parents, stabbed themselves, went in and out and robbed them hundreds of times, they could not repay their parents' kindness; If someone, for the sake of their parents, breaks bones and gives birth to marrow, hundreds of robberies can't repay their parents' affectionate great kindness; If someone, for the sake of their parents, swallowed hot iron pills, and after hundreds of robberies, their whole body was burned, they could not repay their parents' affectionate great kindness. "
You can discuss this kind of topic. Please change the topic, such as "How to be a good parent now", so as not to mislead you. This is a causal relationship. Please be careful. Karma, it's true.