As the child grows older, his self-awareness is enhanced, and his knowledge of things is richer, he will have more ideas and opinions of his own. Another key is that parents' words and deeds or educational guidance can't convince children and lose their respect and trust.
In a guided manner
Parents are advised not to interfere with their children as parents or adults during their adolescence, but in a guiding way!
Patient communication
Communicate patiently with children, accept and understand their ideas.