Author: Alice? Miller, a world-famous child psychologist born in Switzerland, is famous for studying the causes of children's early psychological creation and its influence on adults.

Content abstract: This book focuses on a common social phenomenon, that is, people with painful memories of childhood adapt to even the most indescribable cruel experience by numbing themselves, which has a great negative impact on adult personality psychology. The purpose of this book is to help adults find their basic needs in life, correct their attitudes and methods of getting along with children, and guide them to find a healthy life again.

My feeling: I couldn't put it down at the beginning and read it at one go. I suddenly understood many subtle relationships between my parents and me, and how they influenced my personality and way of doing things today. How should I treat my children in the future is very enlightening.

Small peas by the window

Author: Tetsuko Kuroyanagi, a famous Japanese writer, a famous TV presenter and a goodwill ambassador of UNICEF.

Content abstract: This book tells a true story of the author in primary school. After being expelled from the original school for being naughty, the author came to Ba Xue Garden. Under the care and guidance of President Kobayashi, Xiao Doudou, who is "weird" in the eyes of ordinary people, has gradually become an acceptable child, laying the foundation for her life. This book not only brought countless smiles and touches to tens of millions of readers around the world, but also injected new vitality into the development of modern education and became one of the most influential works in the world in the 20th century.

My feeling: This is a book recommended by my teacher in college. After reading it, I really feel that Xiao Doudou is so happy! She used to be bad and naughty, but she was loved by teachers. If only our teachers and parents could be so tolerant of their children! This book can make you fully enjoy the childlike joy.