In fact, the so-called rebellion is just that children want to stick to their own views and opinions and are not understood by their parents, so they say that children are rebellious. It is best for parents to listen to their children's opinions, talk patiently, analyze problems with their children, see if what they say makes sense, and then make a choice. They should not completely deny children's views, but learn to respect children's personality and independent personality, and don't always have the final say. In addition, the love and care of parents is the most important thing for children. Children with warm and harmonious family atmosphere will be relatively calm and stable. Therefore, parents should first care about their children gently, and help them analyze the problems together and find ways to solve them when they encounter problems. Be calm, don't be impatient, and patiently find reasons to solve problems; In addition, we should spend more time with our children, communicate with them more, don't put pressure on them when encountering problems, and don't criticize them. We should comfort them in time, let them feel the dependence and warmth of their parents, give them support, give them strength, and let them feel the strong spiritual support behind them, because parents' love is the best encouragement for their children. A child who grows up in a loving environment will be a confident, sunny and caring child. He will share his love with those who need help around him in time and become a person who is beneficial to society and others. In short, parents are the strongest spiritual pillar of children at any time!