A freshman who has just entered a key high school feels very confused after entering the school. Although he passed the senior high school entrance examination, he lost his goal, his energy before the senior high school entrance examination and his initiative in learning. Seeing the child's situation, the child's father communicated with the child at lunch on a Sunday.

The child's name is Xiao Yi. He asked his father, "Dad, why does big brother have 7 days of National Day holiday and little sister only has 3 days?" Dad replied to him like this: "Because the big brother works in a big city, it is standardized, and the little sister works in a small place, it is not standardized. Therefore, you should go to a big city, not a small place, study hard in high school and get into a good university. " When it comes to studying hard and getting into a good university, Xiao Yi feels a little confused and has no clear learning direction. He said to his father, "Dad, I feel that science is very difficult after entering high school, and many students feel the same way." Dad replied: "Yes, after entering high school, science is difficult." At this time, Xiao Yi had a sense of identity. Dad continued to talk to him about his study in high school: "In study, several key factors, goals, methods and deliberate practice." Referring to the goal, Xiao Yi replied, "I really don't have a goal." Dad said, "well, according to your foundation, let's talk about goals." Your score in the senior high school entrance examination is above 100, and more than 200 students in your school are admitted to 2 1 1 university every year. At least in the future, you have to be admitted to 2 1 1 university. Usually, your grades in all subjects should be in the top five in your class. " Xiao Yi said: "At present, mathematics is not up to it." Dad said, "Son, step by step, Chinese has reached the third place." Xiao Yi replied, "Yes." He also recognized his father's point of view, and his math scores came step by step. Father said: "in mathematics, you have no knowledge defects, less summary and reflection, less correction of wrong questions and so on." When these are done, your math scores will go up. " Xiao Yi also recognized what dad said. Xiao Yi is full of emotion for mathematics, and refuses to sum up wrong questions, reflect and classify. After hearing what Dad said, Xiao Yi also got a new understanding. Dad said: "keep up with the teacher's rhythm at school, do a week's summary and reflection at home on Sunday, practice summarizing wrong questions every week in mathematics, and complete 2 to 3 questions according to the situation." Xiao Yi replied, "Well, all right." Although Xiao Yi is very excited about math, he still wants to improve his math scores. After experiencing anxiety and emotional instability before the middle school entrance examination, parents consider their children's anxiety. In order to reduce the pressure on children, they seldom talk about learning at home and rarely ask for learning requirements. However, everything is changing, and Xiao Yi still needs the guidance and reminder of his parents. Most children are still naive and need guidance and role models from their parents.

Parents still need constant guidance before children really understand. More importantly, parents need to set an example, and example is the best education.