Parenting experience of parents in small classes Every morning, the only baby in our family, and because of working outside all the year round, grandparents are not around, we are also making progress in groping, and there is no parenting experience at all. Now the teacher asks us to drive the ducks to the shelves and talk about the feelings of Chen Chen's growth in recent years. Throw a brick to attract jade, and achieve the goal of educating the baby together.
Speaking of children's education, we think that the first task is to strengthen communication with the baby, but in the communication with the baby, the baby's thinking system has not been fully established, so any communication needs all-round and multi-level communication and guidance, and must be simulated on the spot, so that the real scene can be integrated and the baby can understand the information we want to convey to him. When my baby 13 months old, something happened: the baby just learned to walk, and that was at 12 months old. On the weekend, a family of three is at home, dad is watching the computer, mom is washing clothes, and the baby is playing at the small table. Mother reminds the baby that if it is cold, you can sit on the bed and cover the quilt. The baby said it was not cold and was busy helping his mother wash clothes together. At this moment, my mother's cell phone rang, and she went to the next room to answer the phone. When she came back, she found that the clothes she was washing were put on the bed by the baby and covered with a quilt. Later, when asked carefully, the baby replied: The clothes were cold, so I put them on the bed and covered them with a quilt. As can be seen from the above events, the child's understanding of what his mother said, sitting on the bed and covering the quilt in cold weather, is not comprehensive. Life is full of such things. It's just that we have the patience to understand and discover the child's mind. So as to achieve effective communication with the baby. Only when the baby correctly understands the guidance of parents and teachers will the child develop in the direction expected by parents and teachers.
Teaching by example is better than words, and children have strong simulation ability. Many children have father-son and mother-daughter relationships with their parents, which is the direct result of role models. So you have to ask your child how to behave. First of all, parents and teachers must do things in the way they give their children and live in the way they give their children. My baby will learn all his father's habits, both good and bad. Children basically have no ability to distinguish between good and bad things, so parents should first pay attention to the impact their lifestyle will bring to their children.
We are all migrant workers, and we don't have much time to spend with our children, but we also hope that the babies can grow up healthily and happily, and we are also eager for teachers to give us more support and guidance in this regard. Thank you very much for sharing this parenting experience. We will seriously study the parenting experience put forward by other parents and teachers, and try our best to urge and help the baby grow up healthily. Finally, thank the teacher for his education and support for the baby!
There is a sentence in the second part of "Small Class Parents' Parenting Experience": Every child is like a book. To understand this book, you need to constantly master the essentials. Family is a child's first class, and parents are a child's first teacher. How to be a good parent and what kind of education can make children grow up healthily and happily? Next, I want to talk about the experience I gained in the process of growing up with my children in recent years.
Some people say that 60% of parents in China basically live for their children, and it is difficult to live, parents, children and teachers.
Most children are only children now. Perhaps some parents think that getting everything ready for their children is a good parent's performance, but overindulgence will only make their children form a spoiled character. Parents' love for their children is understandable, but they should also learn to let their children grow up freely and have more opportunities for exercise. Parents want to learn? Grasp the big and let go of the small? . In fact, children have the ability to do many things by themselves. Parents should let their children do it independently and guide them only when they need help.
Learn to let go and give children more space to think and choose. I don't like to dictate to children how to do one thing. Children also have their own ideas, many of which are not necessarily what our parents want. When Yu Yu and Yu Yu go to the supermarket, she will remind me: Mom, there is only one pack of napkins at home. We should buy some. ? There are no biscuits at home, so just buy a few packets. You can eat them when you are hungry. ? These are the details of her life that she usually notices. Let children learn to observe and think in life, let children have more choices, satisfy her and help you. This is what children are happy to do.
Satisfying her, not only pampering her, but also the principle depends on our parents. For example, children like to eat sugar, and my children are no exception. But I made an agreement with my children a long time ago, but I can't eat more than two sweets a day. So far, as long as two pieces of candy are delicious, she will consciously stop. Actually, children are very principled. The more children are forbidden to do, the more interested they are. I have a classmate's child, who usually has a strict tutor. He is never allowed to eat sugar at home. Once he came to my house to play, and his eyes were full of longing when he saw sugar. I told the children to help themselves if they wanted to eat. He actually stuffed all his pockets with sugar and kept eating it when his parents were away. As soon as my classmate came, the child immediately vomited the sugar in his mouth. Seeing this, I think it's time for students to reflect. Under his strict discipline at ordinary times, the child becomes depressed, timid and passive, which is unfavorable for the child's future growth!
If you like it, you can talk about acceptance and let your children do what they like. Don't always use the banner of loving children, blindly obstruct and worry, and affect the development of children for your own fear and selfishness. How can a child's healthy growth leave his parents to support and encourage him? Children are a mirror of their parents, and their little growth is soaked with our parents' hard work and sweat. Don't doubt and worry, I believe our children must be the best and unique in the world.
Learn to let go and give children their own freedom and space. I always tell myself: treat children as friends. Do you usually clean, tidy the room, read books and play with your children? When making some decisions, listen to your children's opinions. For example, where do you want to play today? What do you want to eat today? Or we sweated a lot today. Shall we take a bath? Talking to children in this tone is easier for children to accept, and paternalistic majesty is difficult to establish intimate relations with children.
Parents should spend more time with their children and communicate with them in language. Respect children like adults, and help children like themselves, appreciate themselves and establish a positive self-image through our care, listening, appreciation, support and sincere treatment. Yu Yu often shares with us what she saw and heard in kindergarten, such as teaching us games in kindergarten, or telling me which children didn't come to class today, and she will always pay attention. I remember one time, Yu Yu asked me to sit with her father. She took a small notebook and a pen and told us that she was going to call the roll. Dad shouted? Arrive? Report the woman's name shouted the mother? Arrive? That's how the game started. We were surprised to find that she actually moved the children in her class from 1 to 30/in one breath. We asked her: Do you know the child's name and student number? She said confidently, Really? Her father and I gave her a thumbs-up compliment? Baby, I'm great! ? How proud and happy she is to be affirmed and praised at this time!
Every time a child says to me: Mom, you are my best friend. ? How gratified I am! Give children a free sky, let them develop actively and healthily, give play to their creativity, let them learn to experience, explore the unknown world, sum up their own gains and losses, and experience the happiness brought by success.
Learn to let go and let children face the world with a positive and peaceful attitude, even if it is difficult and fearful. Let's just say that injections will be encountered many times in my life, and how to face injections is not a trivial matter that can be completely ignored. Besides, some of the resulting psychology can be transferred to other things.
Adults should never judge children by their own feelings, thinking that as long as they are pinned down or coaxed to play, they will be fine. Children are actually very sensible. As long as we tell them the right reasons, they will understand. I remember when I was a child, I went for an injection and saw other children crying desperately there. She fought back, too Later, I told her how uncomfortable it was to be sick. One shot can kill the small bacteria in the stomach, and we will be fine. ? Give an anxious question:? Does the injection hurt? . ? I smiled and said flatly, Oh, it hurts a little, just like being bitten by a mosquito. ? After listening to it, my worries eased, so I cheered her up again: Mom thinks Yu Yu is a brave child, right? Be brave in the future, extend your little hand, don't cry if you can't help it, and it's okay if you can't help crying. ? This encouraged her and gave her a way out. Although she was still very nervous when playing, she was a little afraid to extend her little hand, but with my encouragement and the doctor's praise, she successfully finished the injection. Let it pass this time? Experiment? I feel that the pain of injection can really be resisted, so from that time on, she will cooperate with each injection and extend her little hand to face it bravely.
So, tell the kids? The injection hurts a little? Teaching children to be calm in the face of difficulties can not only alleviate the pain, but also protect themselves. Never cheat a child. If you tell her that the injection doesn't hurt, even if you cheat this time, she won't be cheated next time, and she will resist more.
As parents, we should let go, grasp our own discretion, play our role within our own capabilities, guide our children in the details of life, and grow up with them. It is also a very happy thing for us.
We must firmly believe that being a good person is the most important life skill that parents can teach their children.
Kind people are those who have the least friction with the world and are easy to become happy people; A child who is not harsh in mentality will have a more comfortable mentality, more harmonious interpersonal relationships and more help and opportunities when he grows up.
Appreciating a child is not only appreciating his advantages, but also how to treat his shortcomings. Let children learn to be self-reliant and grateful from an early age, so that they can absorb more love from their parents. When we, as parents, can pass on our love to our children, I believe our children will inherit and surpass shine on you.
Parenting experience of parents in small classes 3 Speaking of parenting experience, I am ashamed. I am also groping to grow up with my daughter on the basis of learning from the experience of experts and predecessors.
When my daughter and I go out on the street, we can always see some children crying and asking their parents to buy this and that, but the parents standing by are helpless!
In fact, children are also independent individuals with their own needs and emotional needs. As parents, especially grandparents, we must treat our children's demands correctly. Reasonable requirements should meet children properly, and unreasonable requirements should be explained to children clearly. When a child wants to cheat and doesn't listen to adults' reasoning, he or she can be unsatisfied and ignored. Parents can seriously tell him (her) that being angry is wrong and useless, give him (her) a warning and a chance to correct himself; If he (she) continues to make trouble, then parents should never pester him (her) more, leave him (her), make him (her) feel lonely, and realize that it is useless to continue like this. Wait until it is completely calm before giving him (her) a reason.
But in real life, there are many grandparents, grandparents and even some parents who give their children everything they want, such as food, use, clothing and play, which are completely satisfied, even unreasonable requirements, and satisfy their children's wishes as quickly as possible. Children are used to getting what they want at once. If you can't get it, you will cry, destroy things, lose your temper, hit people and swear, regardless of the consequences of your actions.
My family and I do this: when a child wants a favorite toy or other requirements, we will make an agreement with the child. If we can eat well every day, we can take a nap in kindergarten, listen carefully in class, help our mother clean the table, set chopsticks, fill rice, water the flowers, sweep the floor and mop the floor. When necessary, then we will buy it for her; On the other hand, she will be happy and try to fulfill the agreement. I think children learn to wait patiently, enhance their self-control ability and learn some skills in this process; But I also learned that if you want to get something, you need to work hard, pay the corresponding labor or pay a certain price; It also invisibly cultivates children's sense of responsibility.
All for the healthy growth of children, let's work together!
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