First, the definition of weariness and refusal to learn.
1, tired of learning: there is a deviation in the cognition of learning, thinking that learning is not important, or that it is not necessary. Emotional negative treatment, negative response in action, deliberately sleeping in class, and actively staying away from learning.
2. Refusing to learn: There is a subconscious fear of learning, which may be accompanied by physical discomfort, inexplicable anxiety and fear of school. Refusing to learn is manifested as dropping out of school and often taking time off.
Second, what characteristics will children who are tired of learning and refuse to learn face?
Physical symptoms: muscle tension, dyspnea, headache, stomachache …
2. Rebellious behavior: complaining about school, complaining, losing his temper, crying and not wanting to go …
3, psychological symptoms: fear of parents separation (separation anxiety), afraid of school-specific things.
Third, lead to such a result:
1, learning confidence drops.
2. Family parent-child interaction is difficult and it is impossible to communicate in depth.
3. The relationship between classmates is not good.
4, psychologically prone to serious anxiety, leading to depression.
Fourth, the possible reasons for refusing to study.
Personal factors:
1, self-demanding, demanding perfection, unable to complete.
2. Lack of ability and repeated setbacks in learning.
3. Poor interpersonal relationship and frustrated feelings.
4. Resist the family by refusing to study as a means of resistance.
5. Recurrent chronic mental illness.
Family factors:
1, doting, arranging and other parenting styles.
2. Parents' high expectations.
Parents deliberately prevent their children from going to school.
4. Family relationship: especially the relationship between husband and wife, can not change the relationship between parents, afraid of problems or changes.
School factors:
1, improper discipline of teachers. Confrontation arises because of inadaptability.
2. fear. Being bullied and excluded by classmates.
There is danger in the school. Afraid of getting hurt.
4. Physical symptoms. Depression, anxiety, panic disorder and so on.