For children, the best way to raise them in poverty is to raise them with love. People who grow up in love actually spend more time with their children and will not miss their growth. Huang Lei said so, but he did it.
As an ordinary person and a star, Huang Lei's personal time is not pitiful to ordinary people. He needs more time to shoot reality shows and participate in various activities. Nevertheless, he still spends all kinds of time with his children. We can often see photos of him with children from Weibo.
But in real life, many fathers, not as busy as Huang Lei, shake their heads to raise their children. The fatherly love that children expect will become extravagant. In many cases, after the child is born, the mother takes the responsibility of taking care of the child herself, while the father, who was originally the pillar of the family, quickly broke off the relationship. Did nothing? . Over time, it is easy to feel that family members have no sense of belonging and gradually make parenting absent.
So when my mother saw my father, she still spoiled as if she had just got married, showing moderate weakness, love and need for her father? We are a family, and my children and I need you. You are the most valuable in the family.
The invitation of the wife and children can stimulate the father's enthusiasm for protection and actively participate in taking care of the children. Then the result of raising children can make fathers feel important and improve their motivation. Many mothers are uneasy about their father's education of their children. Even if their father has a child, he should always look after the child. Biased? Father.
Therefore, when the father and the child are together, the mother's desire is unconsciously encroached on her own limit and she feels betrayed by the child. Therefore, I don't trust my father to take care of my children and criticize my father's behavior. This situation has greatly damaged the father's enthusiasm for parenting.
Mothers still have to trust their fathers and provide enough space to enjoy their time with their children. In the method of raising children, parents should communicate more, try to be consistent in what they can agree with, and recognize each other in what they can't agree with.
Respect for children, the premise of choosing respect is trust and trust. For adults, we have done a good job, but in the face of children, many parents adopt double standards. This is actually a sign of disrespect for children.