Introduction: Some parents give their children to their grandparents directly after their children are born. Because they are very busy at work and have a rich life, they give this task to their parents without much experience in caring for their children. However, we should know that the views of intergenerational education collide. Everyone has different growing environments and different ways to educate their children.

First, it is acceptable to take care of grandchildren with pay. Bian Xiao always thinks that children should be their own. Others can only be the role of helping others, but can't take full responsibility for it. If you want your children to be excellent, it is safest to raise them by your side. If you want your parents to take care of your grandson, you must take some actions. Otherwise, pay directly. Otherwise, you should make compensation in other ways. Don't let parents think they are nannies.

Second, it is an obligation to help with children, and it is an obligation not to help with children. Some people think that parents should help take care of their children, but have you ever wondered why they should take care of your children and you shouldn't? Why is it the other way around? For some parents, they have the right to refuse to help their children with their children, so I hope that adults will change their ideas and think that they are parents and should make such an assumption. Just because you are their child, they hope that their children will not work so hard.

Third, be considerate of your parents. I hope all adults will be considerate of their parents and know the hard work of taking care of their children. Then reduce their pressure, or compensate them with money or compensate them in time. You can't say that you got all the benefits, but in the end, your parents got nothing. And we should consider clearly the parents' generation, whose ideas are different. If there is no way to accept it, don't delay the old man's time.