I believe anyone with a little sense knows that it is impossible to cultivate mentally healthy children in this way of educating children, let alone resist stress and better adapt to society, which will only harm children. Educating children is a science. Children's personalities are different, and the methods of educating children are naturally different. However, educating children by beating, cursing, insulting or even cruel methods will not only enhance their ability to resist stress and adapt to society, but will hurt them and even destroy them. Obviously, it is the wrong way of education.

It is very necessary to educate children about setbacks, but frustration education is not the same as beating, cursing, insulting or even abusing children. There is a big difference between the two, and the result is also very different. It is harmful to abuse and insult children from an early age and treat them in a cruel way, which will leave trauma and even shadow on their minds and affect their healthy physical and mental growth.

1. extremely insecure.

If parents abuse, abuse, abuse and cruelty from an early age in the process of educating their children, it will easily lead to children's lack of security. Parents are the closest and most trusted people to their children, but they always treat their children in a cruel way, which will give them an illusion. Nobody can believe it, and nobody can believe it. They are extremely insecure and will become subservient to Nuo Nuo, timid and insecure about anyone. It is difficult to heal the wounds caused by family background.

2. Psychology is easily distorted.

I was raised differently from others. Suffering from all kinds of abuse and even destruction from parents at an early age will not only affect the healthy development of children's physical and mental health, but also distort children's thoughts and three views, and their hearts will be even more distorted. It is very likely that he will become a pervert in people's eyes because of some psychological defects.

3.grumpy and violent.

If children are educated in an incorrect way for a long time, their outlook on life will be distorted. Parents are the best teachers for their children, and they often teach their children by beating and cursing. Children will naturally study like their parents, will be irritable, violent and even anti-personality, and will pass on their childhood misfortunes to society and retaliate against society and mankind. In addition, it will affect your next generation, even generations. This effect is long-term and profound, and the consequences are unimaginable.

As parents, it is necessary to cultivate their children's ability to resist stress, better adapt to society, educate their children about setbacks, and enhance their psychological endurance and ability to adapt to the environment.