Recently, on a high-speed train in Beijing, a 3-year-old child kept making noise in the carriage, and a passenger sitting around persuaded him to stop it. Parents not only don't think their children are wrong, but take it out on the passengers and insult them, saying that if they have children, they will be killed by her. They think that passengers have been kidnapped by morality, saying that there is no law to shout, and their attitude has not converged after the train conductor and the police intervened.
When I saw the news, I was really angry with my parents in Xiong Haizi. No wonder these children are so noisy and ill-bred. It seems that you really can't blame the children. Adults don't set an example. How can we teach them well? Parents say that three-year-old children can't control it and don't understand it. Then why can other three-year-olds be so polite? Can you listen to your parents' teaching? Can other children have these skills when they are born? The carriage is a relatively closed place. If the children keep making noise, it will really make people feel annoyed. Parents don't look for reasons from their own introspection, and they never know where they are wrong and where their doubts are. So the law really can't control it? Not necessarily.
People's Republic of China (PRC) Public Security Administration Punishment Law? Rule number two Disrupting public order, endangering public safety, infringing personal rights and property rights, obstructing social management, which is harmful to society and constitutes a crime in accordance with the provisions of the Criminal Law of People's Republic of China (PRC), criminal responsibility shall be investigated according to law; If it is not serious enough for criminal punishment, the public security organ shall impose administrative penalties for public security in accordance with this law.
So when we take our children out and they are noisy in public, we can try this:
First, divert children's attention
Whether children are energetic, noisy or angry with their parents, they can be guided and educated by diverting attention, such as using food and toys in their hands to attract their attention. If not, he can play mobile phone for the children temporarily. Mobile phones are very attractive to children. At this time, the most important thing is to keep the children quiet.
Second, leave the scene.
In order not to affect other people, you can take your child to a place where there are no people or few people, and then deal with it slowly (you can take your child to the junction of the carriage, which is more spacious), so that you can safely educate your child and not let others blame you.
Third, set an example.
Parents should set an example first, and then let their children see that the children around them or others are not making noise. It is best to compare with children of the same age and tell them to learn from others, so that they can become children that everyone likes and praise their advantages appropriately.
Fourth, establish the majesty of parents.
Usually, parents should be like parents. When the child is unreasonable, let the child know your attitude, let ta know what is wrong and what should not be done, and realize his mistakes and correct them.
As parents, they are the first guardians of their children, so it is very important for parents to correct their children's wrong behavior in time. Don't always think that you have "legitimate" reasons and excuses just because you are a child. This will only harm children and turn them into unreasonable people in the future.