First, cultivate children's hobbies and broaden their horizons.
As parents, we must not limit the development of children's hobbies. Children have their own interests, which can make them develop more comprehensively. I know that many parents only pay attention to their children's study. In the children's learning stage, they don't let their children touch what they like. They think it's a waste of time, so they stop children from developing hobbies. This is actually a wrong way of education. I think a good way to educate children is to better identify with the development of children's hobbies, cultivate children's development in this area, and broaden their horizons as much as possible. Cultivating their interests from an early age will help them find their own goals in life when they grow up, and it is also the driving force to push their children forward. Learning is important, but it is not dead learning, but living learning. Besides, interest is within the scope of study. With interest, how can you be unwilling to learn?
Second, cultivate children's habit of loving labor.
Labor is very important, especially for children. It can cultivate children's sense of responsibility in the process of labor, and make children more sympathetic to their parents and understand their hardships. Proper family work plays a great role in the healthy growth of children. Many great achievements of mankind are produced by labor. Therefore, by cultivating children's working habits, children can learn to be independent and responsible for their own lives, so that children can feel the joy of labor. A person who loves labor, his sense of responsibility will certainly not be bad, and he will also help children grow up in the process of their growth.
Third, the rewards and punishments for children should be clear.
In a family, the most taboo is to spoil children too much. Spoiling will only destroy children. A good education means a clear distinction between reward and punishment. If the child makes a mistake, let the child realize that he has made a mistake and know how to admit his mistake and correct it. When children do the right thing, they should also be rewarded and praised. Children who grow up with praise will be more motivated. They know that if they succeed in doing things right, they will be praised by others, which is a kind of affirmation for them, and that child will become confident and diligent. Like at home, if the child does something wrong, I will guide him to admit his mistake and apologize, so that he will take responsibility for his mistake. So now he is more and more measured, he will try his best to help me with housework and take the initiative to take charge of his own affairs.
Family education is of great help to children's growth, so family education must be good to cultivate good children.
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