The most common mistake people make in learning is "plagiarism".

Now, in the study of family education knowledge, there is also the phenomenon of "plagiarism". Some successful people copy their work experience into family education; Some teachers copy the "general education experience" accumulated in school to the "special education" in the family; Parents who want their children to succeed copy all the "successful experiences of teaching children" they can see into their family education (many books such as "Going to Tsinghua" and "Going to Harvard" are very popular among parents now, because some parents think that their children can go to Tsinghua and Harvard as long as they follow the prescription); Parents who lack practical education methods copy the knowledge from books into real life; Parents with backward ideas copy the ideas and methods of educating themselves from the previous generation to today-just like students studying, they just copy the examples in class to their homework.

The reason why these parents are keen on "copying" is largely because they are lazy, because "copying" is the simplest and most labor-saving way of learning (no need to learn to digest and absorb), and it is also the least likely to take responsibility. After parents fail to teach their children by copying, they can easily "choose" their responsibilities when facing their children with one sentence: "Others have succeeded by this method, and I have succeeded by this method in my work. How can it be useless to you? It seems that it is still because you (referring to children) are too stupid. " ...