How to prevent children from being sexually assaulted?
1. Sex education starts at the age of two.
In daily life, parents should help their children to establish gender awareness and let them know that men and women are different. Sex education can start at the age of two. When parents take their children to take a bath, it is the best time to teach them to distinguish between men and women and how to protect themselves. For example, it is to tell children that these organs belong to female babies and those organs belong to male babies. They should not touch others or let others touch these private parts.
2. Let children know their bodies.
Parents should help their children understand their own bodies. Some parents will feel embarrassed and speak vaguely. "In fact, this key part should not only make children have a correct understanding, but also tell them that these places can't be seen or touched by anyone except when mom and dad help you take a bath and when the doctor checks. . Also tell the children that as long as it involves the secret parts of the body, the words of adults and teachers are wrong, and the teacher's requirements don't have to be fully listened to.
3. Tell your child what an inappropriate touch is.
Parents should discuss the differences between different kinds of touches with their children at ordinary times, so that children can clearly distinguish what is a good touch, what is an inappropriate or harmful touch, and what is not good or bad. Good touch is what children like, such as parents' hugs and friends' hands. Inappropriate (or harmful) touch is the touch that children want to stop, such as hitting, patting, kicking or touching children's private parts; I don't know if it's good or bad, but it's a touch that makes children feel confused or uncomfortable. Teach children to leave quickly and run to a crowded place when they encounter uncomfortable touch.
4. Talk frankly about sex.
When parents tell their children about the prevention of * *, Dr. Guo Jia advises parents to tell their children some common sense in scientific language as far as possible, instead of vague and secretive words, so that children will naturally accept knowledge, have an open mind and will not feel ashamed, and will not feel that this topic is unspeakable.
5. Strengthen the awareness of self-protection.
Children nowadays are too simple, or too indifferent. Therefore, many teachers will not judge themselves when touching. This requires parents to give their children more education in this area in their daily lives. For example, tell children that your important organs can't be touched by others, even familiar people. Including male reproductive organs, female upper body, reproductive organs. Only in this way can children understand that no one can touch their own place, whether it is naked or covered by clothes.
6. Teach children to distinguish sexual assault.
Children will not judge sexual assault by themselves, so parents should also teach their children how to distinguish. For example, a teacher touching your head to express encouragement is definitely not sexual assault. But when the teacher touches your arm, or starts to touch your face, or covers your ass, or makes you undress for some kind of punishment, these are all sexual assaults. Also, if the teacher asks you to touch his body or his reproductive organs, this is a serious sexual assault, and children must learn to distinguish these hooliganism.
7. Learn to boldly refuse to save yourself.
For children, because they are facing the teacher, they will be afraid and worry that the teacher will beat themselves. Therefore, when you often encounter sexual assault, you will not take the initiative to refuse or call the police for help. In this regard, we must tell the children that when the teacher has such behavior, we must shout for help and refuse the teacher. Even if the teacher will give you some punishment, it doesn't matter, as long as you protect yourself.
8. Don't drink drinks or eat sweets from strangers.
The right to refuse drugs and dangerous goods. Have the right not to listen to strangers, not to drink strangers' drinks and not to eat strangers' candy. Have the right to resolutely say no to drugs, alcohol and tobacco.
9. Don't talk to strangers
The right not to deal with strangers. Children have the right not to talk to strangers. When a stranger talks to a child, the child can pretend not to hear and run away at once. A stranger can knock at the door without answering or opening the door. Tell children that it is right to ignore strangers, and children are incapable of helping strangers. Adults will never think it is impolite. There are also bad people who usually say "I am a good friend of your parents" and tell children never to believe what people they don't know say; And clearly tell strangers that their parents are nearby, or scare strangers away with words like "Dad will pick me up right away". Tell your child: If a stranger still haunts you, divert your attention, run to a crowded place while it is unprepared, and shout for help to attract the attention of passers-by. It should be reminded that parents should tell their children not to panic, never go to sparsely populated places, and never go to his house with "good people"
10. In case of danger, you can break the glass and destroy the furniture.
Emergency hedging right. In order to protect themselves, children have the right to break all rules and prohibitions. Tell children that in an emergency, they have the right to make a hullabaloo about, make a hullabaloo about, kick and bite, even smash windows and destroy furniture.
Parents' cognitive misunderstanding
1. Children need to prevent sexual harassment and sexual assault after puberty. In fact, more children are sexually assaulted in adolescence, because at this time, children are very young, lack discrimination and judgment, and parents are negligent in prevention. At this time, children are more vulnerable.
Second, children are sexually assaulted by girls, and boys will not be sexually assaulted. Because some people have sexual orientation problems or psychological abnormalities, such as pedophilia. So boys will also become targets of sexual assault.
Third, it is strangers who need to prevent child sexual abuse. In fact, more child sexual abuse occurs among acquaintances, such as relatives, friends, neighbors, teachers and so on. Because they are familiar with each other, they are more likely to get close to their children, and because they are familiar with each other, they are less likely to arouse the vigilance and prevention of parents and children.
Four pieces of advice for mother.
First, don't scold children, it's not their fault;
Second, take the children to the hospital for examination;
Third, give children psychological comfort.
Fourth, be wary of relatives and friends with bad sexual orientation.