Now many parents will encounter some problems when communicating with their children. For example, they can't talk anymore, and sometimes they break up in discord. This is actually because in the process of educating children, parents may not pay attention to their emotions or even respect their ideas. In the process of educating children, respect is actually the most fundamental. If children can be respected, the conversation between them can go on happily and the problems can be solved more effectively.

First, based on respect, we can think more objectively. We can think about it. In the process of communicating with others, have we used reprimanding language to communicate with others? Sometimes it is because we are parents that we are angry with some behaviors of our children. At this time, in the process of thinking about problems, we actually have some prejudices.

Therefore, when educating children, if we can be based on respect, we can actually think about problems more objectively and see problems instead of blindly accusing them. Not only in the process of educating children, but also when we communicate with others, we should take respect as the premise. When we educate our children on the basis of respect, the whole problem can be clearer.

Second, children can also learn to respect other people's parents when communicating with their children. If you often quarrel, you also need to think about whether to respect your child's ideas. Because sometimes, we think that children don't respect our ideas, but on the other hand, we will find that we don't respect children either. As parents, we can't treat her condescendingly because she is a child. When we learn to treat our children with respect, he can also learn to respect us equally, which is mutual. Moreover, children actually follow their parents' example. If parents can respect their children in quarrels and believe that children can calm down as much as possible, then the communication between two people can be more enjoyable. Most importantly, in this process, parents can also teach their children how to respect others with their own behaviors.

Third, respect is the most fundamental of education. Respect is the most fundamental thing in the process of educating children every day. If we can learn to respect others, there are many problems that can be solved more effectively. Especially when a child makes a mistake, we can't treat him as a bad person and treat him in a very strict tone. In this way, it is likely to cause children's rebellious psychology.

Especially for children in the rebellious period of youth, if parents don't respect their children, it is likely to cause misunderstanding between them and even make their relationship very distant. For growing children, respect is actually the foundation of education, and it can also make parent-child relationship more harmonious.