Your son is too self-centered, giving the impression that everything should be obeyed by him and everything should be smooth and smooth!
In fact, at this time, oral education is actually, frankly speaking, basically zero!
Because he knows that you all love him, even if you make a mistake, you won't scold him too much! Is whether you want to hear it or not!
Children are very flexible until they are 6 years old. If you teach them orally, they will be good at change. However, after they are 8 years old, oral education is basically ineffective!
You can ask him to sell newspapers on Saturday and Sunday holidays. You can get some newspapers and let him sell them. Use examples to make him feel frustrated, and you can also strengthen his interpersonal skills!
You can also be a little older, let him be a volunteer, let him cultivate a kind heart and know how to be grateful!
You can tell him that with the money you buy, you can buy what you like!
Now, children are still young, and parents' comparison has established their dignity at this time! Kindness and prestige must be equally important!
Otherwise, children will be rebellious and more difficult to discipline when they enter adolescence!
As the saying goes, filial piety, strict family education and rules form people's respect for family authority, which is filial piety.
The mother is in charge of everything, so that the child will never be weaned psychologically, so that the child has no ability to grow up independently. The plot of relying on everything is a manifestation of incompetence.
Strict father gave birth to a dutiful son, but a loving mother lost more. Be sure to grasp the size!
I hope I can solve your troubles!