Just one or two weeks after the primary school started, some parents secretly made a major decision: I will quit the parent group as soon as the semester is over! This may also be the voice of teachers and parents. In the past, the communication channel between parents and teachers was through address book, telephone or SMS. With the development of science and technology, it is convenient now. Every time a child goes to a new class, teachers and parents will set up an offline group to facilitate each parent to obtain the latest information: the scope of the exam, the date of off-campus activities, and the materials to be brought to the art class ... But more often, the parent group becomes a high-pressure organization of "elder map" and "activity point roll call".
It turned out that a group of parents sent important class notices. Why did the clock go away for no reason?
Go clock 1. I'm so enthusiastic that I can't finish the notice. Many parents pay great attention to manners. They send "Good morning, hello" and "Happy every day" in the group on time every day. When someone starts, they will appear various pictures one after another. It is essential to wish you a happy holiday every year. Some parents even share the scenic photos of traveling abroad. Or parenting articles on the Internet, inspirational articles "What is the miracle of life" and "Bill Gates said ..." Another kind is that when the teacher sends a notice, someone will be enthusiastic @ all parents, and the whole group will be immediately reprinted by a dozen or twenty "thank you+received". I want to turn off the option of jumping out of message notification, but I'm afraid I can't receive important messages right away. This dilemma will last about a semester.
Recommended reading: As a mother, you must have all four chat groups!
Go clock 2. Think of the group as a parent-teacher association contact book+leave card+group purchase. Children should be trained to remember to do their homework and spontaneously prepare things to take to class. Now that there are parents, parents directly regard themselves as the main window and ask whether to bring crayons or watercolors tomorrow. How many eggs do you want? There are even parents who are keen on group buying and need children to buy things together. If the child has a temporary cold and doesn't bring his exercise book, it is the fastest to inform the teacher in the group. Some parents will label their teachers in the middle of the night, or suddenly say in the group that afternoon, "My children will not stay in school today", which is very annoying. Technology always comes from human nature, and another effect of convenient contact is that private time and space are also compressed.
Go clock 3. Speaking of class fees and parent-teacher conferences, even parents who usually dive have to get out of the table when discussing class fees or parent-teacher conferences. After all, it's about paying the bills or electing the parents' president. For example, if the class fee is going to rise, some parents will question the necessity, depending on the expenditure details and holding a vote, and the crowd will suddenly heat up. Or at the end of the semester, teachers or parents suggest that the remaining class fees be used to buy some food for students to have a final party. At this time, other parents may also have opinions, saying that my child does not eat snacks or drink. Can I get a refund?
In addition, there are some hidden situations. After the monthly exam, some parents will show their comparison mentality intentionally or unintentionally. For example, a mother asked in the group: Is this math monthly exam too difficult? After school, the children were sent to the parents' class and wrote many evaluation papers, but the results were still unsatisfactory; At this time, some parents will react that their children never take tutoring, but only encourage spontaneity, but they can achieve good results.
Recommended reading: sharing or comparing with each other? Will it be a pressure on parents to give cakes to their children on their birthdays?
Are you in favor of setting up a parent group? Some parents feel that they can send messages immediately and it is convenient to have group communication. Others think that if it is not for the children, they really want to quit. However, a netizen shared his experience, saying that their parents were forbidden by teachers, and only teachers could send notices, homework and other news. If they need to communicate, they will be one-on-one in private, so that they will not be disturbed by too much news.