Children should be made to understand the laws of the cruel jungle life in society. Similarly, we should also teach them to adapt to the laws of society: 1. The spirit of exploration. Man is always advancing in exploration. Without Shennong tasting a hundred herbs, there would be no medical development in China. Children should be encouraged to explore, instead of telling them "don't touch this danger, don't touch that danger." Within the controllable range, let them have a try, read thousands of books and take Wan Li Road. What you get on paper is so shallow that you never know what you have to do. Parents don't want their children to be flowers in the greenhouse. 2. In the process of encouraging children to try, it is inseparable from the rule education. Rules are the basic guarantee for us to get along with others, that is, to protect our own rights and interests as well as the rights and interests of others. Rules are our bottom line and cannot be easily broken. Parents should set an example and tell their children what rules are and what your bottom line is. 3. Frustration education This year, master students from Tongji University jumped off a building. No matter right or wrong, it is said that this incident has caused immeasurable harm to their families. There is a saying that people's greatest anger is to hate their powerlessness, but to some extent, the reason why they choose to commit suicide is precisely because of the lack of frustration education. Some time ago, CCTV broadcast a news that the coach driver took his son out to play during the winter vacation because his son was not at home all the year round. The road is steep and rugged, and driving is thrilling step by step. When crossing a mountain, the car broke down, and my father was prone on the snow to repair the car for two hours. The moment the car was repaired and rushed to the top of the mountain, he told his son: life is like this. At the critical moment, you have to bite your teeth and rush forward. You can see the radiant light when you rush. The father only has a primary school education, but the son has been admitted to the doctor. At the graduation ceremony, my son said: I was admitted to the doctor from the cold door because my father taught me since I was a child. What knocks us down in life is never a setback, but a passive evasive attitude in the face of setbacks. You should learn to turn every difficulty into an opportunity to learn. When one door closes, another door opens. Or, open the closed door yourself. All education is inseparable from the growth and development laws of children at every stage. Don't let him bear the unbearable lightness in life too early, and don't let too much innocence hurt the child.