1, the purpose of education is not only to promote children's growth, but also to enable children to adapt to this environment well and successfully integrate into it.

The explanation of "adaptation" here is very special: adaptation refers to an inner feeling that can make us feel safe, happy and very satisfied (spiritually).

If you take this as a standard, you will know how difficult it is to create an environment suitable for children, and it is even more difficult to help children understand and integrate into this environment.

2, give children a correct outlook on life, let children know their place in this world, and understand their own situation and circumstances.

Let children know the rules of action of the world, put human beings in the universe to see, and you will know that we do not exist independently. People are more attached to the environment and take more from the environment than give. And everything in the world is interrelated and interdependent. Many times, when you get what you want, you also help each other invisibly.

Such as wheat, are provided to humans as food. Through the continuous cultivation of human beings, the "territory" occupied by wheat is also expanding.

What we can do is to give children a key to open the world, let them discover the mysteries of nature and increase their social experience.

3, human nature is not only selfish, but also selfless after selfishness. Help children form a correct cognition and cultivate a sound personality. When they learn to think rationally, they will not become blind followers. They will know how to be grateful and learn to cherish and respect everyone.

There is no age limit on the cognition of society, and children should not be kept from knowing these facts just because they are young. Today's world is changing rapidly, and old and new ideologies collide with each other. It is necessary to help children shape the most basic behavioral awareness and let them have their own will and ideas.

Many parents' pet phrases are: "Children don't understand, don't talk nonsense (or ask random questions)", "Children don't understand, I'll tell you when you grow up" and so on. I also think that if the child asks, we should try our best to explain, and there is no need to avoid anything. When we answer, we will find that the child's question is not as complicated as we thought. No matter how complicated it is, we can't answer. We can also teach our children how to study together.

4, to understand what is the basis of training children, what is the most important for their future development. Willpower, intelligence, imagination, morality and perfect personality are all foundations; Everyone is anxious about the future. Because of the greater uncertainty, it is very important to keep your own thinking and think freely. This is why nature has not given us the ability to see things on the surface of the earth. We have our own thoughts and wisdom.

For example, in the future artificial intelligence, many people will worry about unemployment. Historically, every technological revolution will lead to unemployment, but it will also give birth to new industries. Therefore, we should keep the attitude of continuous learning in uncertainty. It is very important for children to be curious.

5, we need to pay attention to every behavior of children, because some behaviors that we think are unimportant may affect their life.

I think this is why educating children is the most difficult thing in the world.

6. Practice is the best mentor for wisdom growth, so we should give children freedom and space to play, let them fully enjoy life, let them do what they want, and allow children to make mistakes. People's awareness of self-improvement will continue to play a role, and children can achieve self-improvement in practice.

It is to let children play freely while ensuring safety.

7. Stimulate children's inner self-control and let them control their behavior. The happiest time is when the child's spirit is satisfied. When you really devote yourself to what you like, children will no longer feel tired, but will become more and more relaxed, that is, they will be satisfied internally and get what they want. Only when everyone belongs and accepts can they find their truest emotional sustenance and truly feel happiness.

Can this also be used to explain why those masters always say: do what you like.

To refine the above seven points, in this chapter, Meng also mentioned some points that I think need further discussion: for example, 1, which she thinks may be because children have interpersonal communication, thus producing language, and then drawing the conclusion that children have realized human evolution; 2. It also mentions the most primitive state of religion: human beings mythologize some things because they can't explain and control them, and God invisibly helps human society to establish order and patriarchal etiquette; Because of the arrival of children, the nation is more United and the national spirit is stronger. These will not be expanded here.