As the saying goes, it is the father's fault that children don't teach. Many parents are troubled by the problem of educating their children. Although many methods have been used, it will still happen that children are getting worse and worse. At this time, the attitude of parents is the key, and positive education is the most effective method. Every child has more or less rebellious psychology, and with the growth of age, rebellious psychology will become more and more serious. Parents will find that the more they control their children, the more disobedient they are. When children enter the rebellious period, they will want to leave their parents and have more rights. If parents are more strict with their children because of their rebellious psychology, they will only make them more disobedient and fall into a vicious circle, and eventually conflicts will break out.
If parents like to use punishment, it will make their children's mentality become negative, so they should be careful everywhere and be afraid of being punished for making mistakes. When I grow up, I am timid, only Nuo Nuo, without pioneering spirit. If children are treated with arrogant education, they will be unruly, disrespectful and selfish, which will affect their future development. Therefore, only positive education can make children maintain a good and positive attitude and face the setbacks in life optimistically and openly.
A very important part of positive education is to make rules for children. Children have a sense of bottom line when they are young, and it is not easy to touch the more important legal bottom line when they grow up. Knowing the importance of the bottom line will make children become principled people, will not easily make principled mistakes, and will not let themselves go astray because there is no bottom line.
Some parents like to satirize their children. Even if their children are improving, their praise is strange. This will hurt the child's self-esteem, get no positive praise and criticism, and undoubtedly make the child's character suspicious and melancholy. Children below positive education can be kindly and actively taught by their parents to treat their own progress and mistakes, so that children will naturally develop a kind and firm character.
Regardless of children's study or life, parents should help him to establish rules and plans and implement them firmly. Obey the rules when you are young, and integrate well into the social rules when you grow up. When children are unwilling to study, parents should help them make plans and let them arrange their study and life according to the plan. In the process of implementation, parents should also participate to remind and correct their children's behavior in time.