First, children have baiwenhang. A person who only pampers children may treat them with compensation. The parties may feel that they didn't have anything before, so now that they have children, they always want to give them all the good things, what they don't have and what they want. In fact, this is the core of compensation, but it is wrong. People who only know endless demands will bury their parents and will not help themselves if their parents give them a little in the future. Therefore, it is not appropriate to indulge children's dating. It's really good to let children know that there is no gain without giving.
Second, always complain when raising children fails. Children fall down because they can't walk well, walk unsteadily or don't watch the road carefully, and then adults not only don't correct it, but complain that the road is not good. This is also wrong. Indulge in children's failure without looking for reasons, but resent the people or things that make them fail, which will make children accomplish nothing and love to complain about others.
Third, train children to be lazy. Every child is the treasure of his parents, and it is understandable to spoil them. It's certainly okay to be proud of your child. However, when children are learning to operate, they should not be "spoiled", otherwise it is easy to develop a lazy person who "reaches for clothes and opens his mouth".
Fourth, train children to be people who know what they can't do, but insist on hitting the south wall and refusing to reflect. Be proud of your children and show off your capital. No matter whether the child's grades are good or not, he is proud of it. It is necessary to distinguish between what can be done and what cannot be touched. For example, children who steal other people's toys and show off their intelligence are fools. For example, when a child is racing with others, he deliberately stumbles others with his foot, so that adults can praise him as "smart", which is teaching children bad behavior. Therefore, not a child can show off everything, and it is necessary to distinguish between what is worth doing and what is not. Otherwise, we will wait for parents to "clean up the mess" for their children every day.
Looking forward to the success of children is always a little thought of every parent, but it is not advisable to spoil children. I hope children have a good future, which of course requires good guidance and education from adults.