The exemplary role of parents in family education
1, set an example and give play to the leading role of parents. Let our parents start from the small things around us, from word and deed, bit by bit, consciously abide by social morality, maintain public order, care for public facilities, abide by the law, be enthusiastic about public welfare, protect the environment, be helpful, be polite and friendly, and respect the elderly and love the young. Holding hands with big hands exerts a subtle influence on our children. Let children learn "civilization" in life, implement "etiquette" in behavior, and cultivate children into real "modest gentlemen who know how to be polite."
2. Behavior pattern is the basis of children's cognition. Children observe their parents' behaviors and print them in their minds like cameras. At this time, the child has no ability to evaluate right and wrong, good and evil, and it is impossible to judge whether this impression is good or bad. They will only imitate curiously.
3, role models, parents have high prestige in children's minds, and are the providers of children's words and deeds. Children's imitation ability is very strong, and many parents' performances and ways of doing things are easily imitated by children. Therefore, parents should let their children do what they say, not what they say, which is worse than letting their children go with the flow.
4, the role model of rules, children are growing up slowly, and some rules set by the family should also be changed slowly. However, no matter how it is changed, the rules introduced must be observed, and parents should abide by them first, which not only plays an exemplary role, but also gives children an example to imitate. If once the child does not obey and makes a mistake, parents must not punish the child directly, but let the child know where the mistake is and how to change it. Otherwise, punishment will become meaningless, just a decoration.
The role of parents in family education
1. Let children grow up healthily. As parents, what we must care about is whether our children are healthy and happy. Get up in the morning and let the children give themselves a smile. I hope you have a good day. When the children come home from school, I will smile and ask them, did you have a good time today? The children will tell me what happened at school today, what happened happily and what happened unhappily. Through the description of the child, we will know the state of the child today. Let children live a healthy and happy life is the ideal!
2. Properly motivate children to improve their interest. Interest is an important factor that affects people's actions. It can make people like doing an activity. However, some children have low interest in learning and poor awareness of learning. Every day, they do their homework and deal with teachers and parents. If they can put it off, if they don't, they can try to avoid it. For this kind of children's homework problems, parents should start with cultivating and improving their interest in learning, and find ways to change the state that children are forced to learn by adults, so that children can become active learners of "I love learning" and "I want to learn".
3. Cultivate children's self-discipline ability. Self-discipline is easier said than done. Self-discipline is not innate, but gradually cultivated under the supervision and guidance of parents. This kind of supervision refers to effective education. Parents who mainly beat and scold and train every day can't cultivate self-disciplined children.