In the past two years, teachers' work has become more and more difficult, and children have become more and more difficult to manage. What should teachers do if they want to reduce their workload and improve their work efficiency? For example, if you have the strength of 200 Jin, you will feel very light if you choose 150 Jin, but you will feel very heavy if you choose 200 Jin with 150 Jin. You have no energy to reduce workload and improve work efficiency. You need to improve your work strength. Just like building a house, it is dynamic to lay a good foundation and grasp the psychological framework of teachers in the workplace.

[Rose] If you recruit a teacher, you must ask the teacher if you think your child's life has anything to do with you. If the newly graduated students say I don't know, I am still young and can be cultivated. If an old teacher says what this has to do with me, such a teacher must not be used. If a three-year-old child finds me and says that the teacher told the children not to play with me and that I was naughty, this is absolutely not allowed by me. Teachers have traces to follow in the process of children's growth

[Rose] When I was a child, I made sentences with jagged teeth. I said the house was uneven, and the teacher said the teeth were uneven. How can you be so smart? Therefore, as a teacher, especially negative words, you must never say anything. A teacher was bored and asked himself, can you be a teacher? Self-efficacy comes from two aspects. 1 is the freedom of occupation and space. What are you doing in the teaching building and library? The headmaster doesn't care about you.

[Rose] The second job is self-employed, and the teacher's teaching plan needs to be checked, but the leader doesn't care what you say in class, and the leader doesn't care what you say. As soon as the door is closed, the teacher is the boss. In terms of personal growth, teachers will do two jobs, engage in scientific research and attend classes all their lives. The headmaster wants everyone to be an expert in scientific research. There is no way to open the back door in this world. If you want to be a famous teacher, the Roman Avenue is everywhere. This job is cool.

[Rose] For example, someone opens the door in the morning and a group of children are playing at home. What are you talking about? What are you doing here? Don't stay at my door. Such a person is not fit to be a teacher. When another man opened the door, he said, what are you doing, son? Why are you here? This kind of teacher was appointed by He Laoshi's mother. Why? If the mother is angry when she was a child, the child's explosion point will be low and she will feel insecure.

There is such a mother who divorced because her father was poor. Her father brought up her daughter with her, and then her mother divorced and asked her daughter for money. This girl is more successful. He is an actor, and his daughter cries if she doesn't give it to him. To tell the truth, fortunately, this girl is not a teacher, because if she doesn't know, she will be angry, explode and get hysterical. The emotional channel between a person and her mother can't be blocked, so the explosion point will be lower and things will be more urgent. When a child is abandoned by his mother, he should be filial to her.

[Rose] When a high school teacher was dealing with a child's problem, he slapped the table because the child was particularly arrogant. Later, parents complained to the head teacher of the Education Bureau, and they couldn't figure out why parents and children were so poor. Then the teacher had two marriages that ended because of violence. He doesn't understand why all the women others meet are so good, and I am so unlucky [tearful]. When she was young, she was sent to her grandmother's house, which was in the countryside. My brother and his parents are in the city center, so he lives with this resentment, thinking that I am redundant and you don't want me to cry, so his explosion point is low and he gets angry whenever something happens. The reason is that he didn't contact his mother when he was a child, so he really had to communicate with her.

[Rose] A woman is over 50 years old, suffering from depression [tears], and her mother is already in the grave. In fact, it doesn't matter what her mother looks like. What matters is that you have finished. His depression was caused by her mother's childhood, so I turned off the light and let her talk. She didn't say anything at first, and then she scolded her mother. Why does she prefer boys to girls? Why did you only kiss your brother? Why is it so unfair to me? After crying, depression has basically improved, so the reason behind intercession is invalid. A person with high self-efficacy thinks that he can do this job well and has a sense of accomplishment, so his self-efficacy is high and his explosion point is low.

[Rose] There are two applied teachers, Xiao Li and Xiao Wang. The leader sent an old teacher to class. The old teacher came back and said that Xiao Li and Xiao Wang had done well in 123, and there was still room for improvement in 456. In the same way, Xiao Li thinks it's quite good, 123 is quite good, 456, it would be better to improve it a little, but Xiao Wang thinks, oh, no, I'm not good at 456.

[Rose] Professional ethics and sense of professional purpose. If a person doesn't think this job is valuable, he can't do it well. Educate a child, you tell him to get more money and study hard in order to find a good job in the future. He doesn't want to do it, he wants to find his own sense of value.

When the child went to kindergarten at the age of four, the teacher told the parents that the child's throat was inflamed. Let the children eat buccal tablets when they get home, or they will have a fever tomorrow. As a result, his mother forgot at once that the child did have a fever the next day. If there is such a teacher, you can rest assured that there is no need to hang a signboard. There are absolutely many students, and you can't finish talking.

[Rose] There is a child who always walks on tiptoe. The teacher told his parents that you should pay attention to nutrition and exercise in these three years. If you do as I do, after three years, the children will be fine in primary school, otherwise, the school performance will be extremely poor. Then the child is very lucky. After three years, he really adapted to the primary school. The other kid didn't meet a professional. Beginner teachers have their own sense of professional value and professional goals. He went to Europe to study alone. She said that if the child has a problem, he just needs to come to me, and I will make sure that he has no problem. After investigation, he put Chinese medicine and infantile massage in his bedside bookcase, and was listed as an infant consulting expert after retirement. Without performance pay, assessment and professional value, people are unwilling to work. The sense of professional value is the root of happiness.

It is very important for a child to choose a school and a good class teacher. It is better for children to choose school than time. The principal is not important. Whether a person's eyes accept your child or reject your child, he affects your child, and the future is different.

[Rose] As a primary school teacher, it is immoral to read at least two books on children's psychological development and be a teacher of young children without knowing the basic situation of children.

The age of junior high school students is induced. Did the Chinese teacher induce your students to achieve something in literature? A high school teacher retired, and the students raised their glasses to you at the party. Because of one of your actions in those years, I am now. This is professional ethics. As a primary school teacher, after reading at least two books about children's psychological development, it is immoral to be a teacher of young children without knowing the basic situation of children. The age of junior high school students is induced. Did your student Chinese teacher induce your students to achieve something in literature? Professional ethics of retired high school teachers. Students propose a toast to you. Because of one of your actions in those years, I am now. This is that professional ethics has become an inherent need for your development.

[Rose] Second, there is a sense of purpose. There is a young special post teacher. He asked himself to go to a remote countryside. It is easy to be promoted in a remote place, because it is difficult for him to be promoted in a high-end school in a big city. He stayed in the countryside for several years and was promoted to a senior position. Then he went to the best school in the city with a senior title. The leader was good-looking and advanced at a young age. When he came back, he asked to go to logistics. Anyway, I'm promoted, and I have no goals.

[Rose] Sense of purpose, such as what step I have taken in my major in the past five years? I have spoken at the summit forum in the past five years. I am a university professor and an expert. I have taught junior high school Chinese for 16 years, and my major won't ask questions. If you are an expert, you will reach the highest point put forward by Maslow, so you will not be tired. If you have energy, you will give students energy. People's psychological strength is calm.

[Rose] Because a teacher has little energy, anxiety [tears] will definitely affect students. The core of future school competition is soft power.

A teacher saw that a child's stool was not properly placed and approved it in large quantities. See how you do it. None of the stools is well made. These are small things, and nothing can be done well [tears]. Because he was in a bad mood at home, her boyfriend sent her a bunch of flowers the next day. It's also the child who didn't put the stool away. Just put the stool away.

[Rose] Here's another example. A newly graduated college student, little girl, cheerful and sunny, working hard. The children like her very much. She was in the worst class, and a middle-aged teacher was in the top class. Middle-aged and fat, she scolded a student in her class. Why are you so stupid? Why are you the last in all scientific research? After teaching for a semester, the grades of the little girl class are among the best, and the middle-aged teachers are the lowest in all subjects. The headmaster talked to him, and he was also very wronged. What time did he say I would go to work in the morning? What about noon 12? Everyone is off work in the afternoon, and I have to work overtime to tutor my children ... If I were the principal, I would work so hard, but there is still no result. You need to improve yourself when your energy is low [tears].

I have a student. He wanted to change classes and asked him why. He said he hated his head teacher and math teacher. His head teacher's math teacher is a middle-aged migrant worker who came to Beijing with her husband. Her son used to be an ordinary student in the local area, but he became a poor student because of discomfort. She has just arrived in other places, with few friends and complicated relationships. This anxiety in her life brought to her students. I asked the child, what did the teacher say in class? The child said that the class was very good, and there were no classes in any remedial classes. The teacher speaks very well. There is something wrong with his soft power The teacher said that I worked hard to prepare lessons and teach, and my grades were worse than others. I really have no face. As soon as he entered the classroom, the whole class was in a bad mood and the children could not absorb energy.

[Rose] Another is the relationship between husband and wife. We can't be friends with parents and children, and we can't establish various relationships. When we go to the classroom, we take it out on the children. It used to be said that teachers should set an example. I was going to send my children to kindergarten, but I met the teacher, who had a wound on his face. Then my colleagues discussed that the husband and wife quarreled last night and her husband hit her. Think about it, he is anxious in the process of work, and his heart can't be stable, at least until after ten o'clock. If I see this situation, I will take the child out at once.

[Rose] A middle-aged teacher looks so gloomy every day. His own children don't attend classes for two months, and he is still a model teacher. One kind of children are unlucky and angry at home and can't settle down the next day. Teachers are not actors. He married this today and will marry him tomorrow, so both of them are very naive. Two naive people say divorce is divorce. If one is naive and the other is mature, it will be dragged down by childishness. So the happiness of a family has nothing to do with a woman's education. Do a good job in the relationship between husband and wife, and basically know that men are explosive and women are stable and persistent. For example, women's immunity is much stronger than that of men. A big plague must be that men die more, and women giving birth to children will also make a virtuous circle of women's bodies. The virtuous circle of giving birth will be repeated. Men don't talk much, but women love to talk about their feelings. Women say how insidious their feelings for your mother-in-law are. What about the evidence of that man?

[Rose] Women still cry, but men seldom cry after they are ten years old. We all teach men not to cry. If men don't say don't cry, they will have an emotional backlog.

The running-in of the two started with sexual passion, and the passion disappeared after 18. You should know where the contact point is, so don't say it.

[Rose] These parallel bodies connected to the brains of all countries play a role. Women should be good at turning off the tap in meetings, men break bowls, and women get bored when they go to the room to sweep. Later, they will know that they are wrong, so the woman who is good at turning off the tap is the best.

[Rose] The basic quality of teachers is consciousness (emotional intelligence). Consciousness is the ability to perceive the emotions of oneself and others, to accurately grasp the importance of students' problems, and to correctly help students grow, cultivate themselves, read books, improve their self-cultivation and communicate with each other. If a teacher has a high EQ, which teacher will he choose as the head teacher? If he has a high EQ, he will be good at discovering things and their motives. If his emotional intelligence is low, the teacher's little things will become big things and nothing will happen.

[Rose] Wang Xiaoming, a child with a wrong expression and mood, knocked down the table after class and hit the waist of the classmate in front. A keen teacher will ask Wang Xiaoming what happened at home on Sunday, right? My parents quarreled and divorced, then slapped me in the face. Give me your father's phone number and I'll call him. Wang Xiaoming said no, my father is unreasonable, and it doesn't matter if your father cherishes you. People with low awareness will yell at Xiao Ming that you have so many things to do every day ... how can the teacher be so angry? Take a batch to class.

[Ross] The kitten had a fight with another child, and his face was covered with dust. I would say let the teacher clean it. You are all my treasures. Your fighting will worry the teacher, and I won't be able to give you a class tomorrow, so other students will blame you. Come and hug, and go to class.

[Rose] If you want to be a teacher, you must be a head teacher. Being a class teacher will be full of peaches and plums. Successful children will come to you at the age of 40, because only at the age of 40 will they reflect on life. Only when the teacher doesn't ask for anything will they come to the teacher. They found that the house where the teacher lived was very shabby, so they organized their own classmates. Successful students went to Beijing to buy a room and a living room for their teachers, so that they could enjoy their old age. The student said that he deserved to live in the house we bought him, which I will never forget. At that time, when we were young, there was another child who was as late for school as I was. The child was scolded by the teacher, who took off my shoes and socks and gave them to me. Change the liver for a while, change the dry paper ball for a while, and say otherwise it will be uncomfortable.

[Rose] To be a teacher, you need to look at many delicate descriptions of characters' psychology, such as A Dream of Red Mansions and The Legend of Qiong Yao and Zhen Huan. You should watch an episode and take notes. What is the purpose of his saying this? What to perform in the next assembly to improve self-training and observation, and also to exercise consciousness.

[Rose] Teachers' basic literacy and the purpose of talking with students,

Once we understand the motivation behind students' behavior,

Second, understand the emotional stress that students have suffered recently.

The psychological need of minors is to be protected. If he feels unprotected, his behavior will be chaotic. Because he feels unprotected, he will be afraid of silence. When I meet a problem, I always ask the student what trouble he is in and what help I can provide. There's only one problem, Wang Xiaoming. Have you been in any trouble recently? No, I'm your class teacher. I will help you no matter what. I also said no, you see, your situation is about to collapse [tears]. It doesn't matter. I am your teacher. I will help your teacher no matter what. My father and mother divorced, and my father found another one. Let me follow my father. My father can't even cook. It hurts to think about it. Calm down. I'll talk to your mother. I am your teacher. I'll help you. The purpose is to find out what problems children have encountered and find out the reasons for solving them.

[Rose] There is a young teacher who has a son of a migrant worker who is in the sixth grade. She called the father of the child. How's your son? Why don't you care ... call your father and criticize him severely. For the first time, father didn't care. The second time, he called him. What's your son like again? Dad was criticized again, and the child was still like that. Later, when I called my father for the third time, I began to criticize him. As a result, the father pushed the teacher down with a jerk, and his head was broken.

[Rose] Every time you call your parents and tell them how bad your child is, you call it venting your emotions. Parents will also vent their emotions on their children. If the children don't attend classes, they will vent this on their teachers. Is this the desired result?

[Rose] Give the teacher a one-on-one sticker and a zero.

First, the purpose is clear. For example, if your divorce affects your children, it needs to be solved.

The second is to provide a plan. If you don't know how to get him to do what and what scheme to provide, the grade group will make a discussion. Please contribute to Wang Xiaoming's plan.

[Rose] The third is the formatting operation. Mom, Wang Xiaoming, thank you very much for your support to our work, but I have no experience that needs your cooperation. Wang Xiaoming is a good child, and she will definitely have a future. Mom Xiaoming said that you are getting a divorce, and he will have a falling out with his father and children who can't cook. Mom Xiaoming said that you must get a divorce and go to court anyway. Well, before the divorce, please deal with the children's problems.

[Rose] If the child is in high school and the husband and wife quarrel and want to sit down and talk with the child, we can't take the quarrel seriously. We have a good relationship and are very cohesive.

[Rose] The role of our subject teaching and research section is to study the three worst students in each class, find out the reasons and study the reasons for their poor study.

There are three reasons why math is not good.

One is anxiety,

Second, the foundation is poor, and the chain has fallen somewhere.

Third, poor mathematical thinking,

Linguistic aspect

Poor literacy, poor literacy knowledge

Then, if there is a problem with math, I will talk to my parents to see where the child missed. We will lay a solid foundation for children in school. You can find a tutor to continue to exercise your child's foundation after class. Now, don't argue with children, give them time to grow up slowly.

[Rose] If two children are fighting, why did they call their parents here? This has nothing to do with their parents. We should handle this matter well in schools and units. There are many things passed down by word of mouth. Now the competition is soft power.

[Rose] The goal of teachers to manage students

What kind of students are willing to study? Now parents of migrant workers also attach importance to their children's learning and education, so they say

Let children feel at ease, calm, willing to learn, able to devote themselves,

To make a child feel at ease, he must study well, and only if he is willing to study can he get good grades. The goal of managing students is to make children feel relaxed. Wang Xiaoming ran to the playground and broke the flowerpot made by the director. The director of education gave the child a big meal on the spot and was criticized by the leader. A child must be scared. Later, my classmate sued me and told my teacher that Wang Xiaoming had trampled the flowerpot and the director was training him. Then the director of education told me that I called Wang Xiaoming to ask if the flowerpot was broken. Wang Xiaoming actually likes you very much, and the teacher praises you for your cleverness.

There is a teacher who teaches mathematics in Class A and Class B. In the final exam, Class A scored seven points on average than Class B. The teacher went to Class B and said, Ah, I read your answer sheet. Class B scored seven points higher than us on average, but they all got basic points. The students behind our class are all right about the big questions. Our thinking is very strong. I believe we can surpass them in the next exam. Let's try our best to see if we can do it. The students said they would raise 10. When the teacher is giving a lecture, one eye shines, and the teacher and the students work together.

[Ross] Another way to deal with it is noisy. Why are you so stupid? I spent more time buying you all kinds of materials. Why did I take so few exams? The students came to the conclusion that the teacher spent more time and made more materials. Then I became stupid and rolled my eyes in class.

Emotional fear behavior must be chaotic. I entered the school in Wang Xiaoming, which is a safe place. As long as you see me say that the head teacher can help you with anything, don't be afraid of anything. My father in Xiaoming ran away with someone else, took her to marry someone and ran away, leaving him with a paraplegic grandmother. Before the start of school, the school leaders asked for home visits. I mean, how could I meet him and let such a child? As a result, I asked the teacher to do this for one day, touch his head the next day and touch his head the third day. I also said, don't be afraid, don't be afraid of anything. Some teachers began to praise you on the fourth day and did well in the first three days. Teachers in all subjects praise you, and students also say that you have made great progress. After a semester, the child's grades are among the best. No, he hasn't seen me. He is like a loudspeaker in the office, telling me how the child is. As a result, walls have ears. Other children will bully him when they hear this, and he will rot all the classmates in the class, probably those from poor families. This classmate will be afraid because the family will not let him feel at ease. The primary school teacher hugged him, and the junior high school teacher patted him on the shoulder, letting him solve his fears and telling him that I was there. Grandma scolded his mother every day after his mother ran away with someone else.

[Rose] Our teachers often do the opposite. Amin, wait for me to call your mother. If it doesn't work for your mother, call your father. Who are you going to surpass in this exam? Seemingly encouraging, in fact, it makes children more uneasy, anxious, afraid of refusing to learn, and difficult to invest. Some teachers pay a lot and get little. The child's grades are poor, and the teacher causes the children in the class to look down on him, all because you lowered the average score of our class, and as a result, the students all look down on him. This is stupid and makes the whole class uneasy. If you want to help the weak in an environment, the environment is reassuring and kind. You mobilize your classmates to help him protect him, others will bully him, and our class will have cohesion. Under the hands of a kind teacher, the child's heart will be stable.

[Rose] A classmate jumped over a goat, and everyone else jumped over it. Why doesn't he dance a few times? If the teacher has no problem, just say it doesn't matter. The students formed a circle to protect him and shouted the slogan of cheering for him. As a result, he jumped at once. Ma Xiaohong, your Chinese is so good, you should help the weak in our class, see what's wrong with his paper, tell him, and then come and help the students with learning difficulties. You say that his grades are poor, ignore him, don't play with him, take him away, and then mother will come to us and won't let our children play with him. Two children will be separated from him when they play secretly. If two children are in extreme pain, the children will be destroyed [shed tears]. What does it matter if you want to learn well and help this poor student?

You tell the child to recite it. Why don't you recite it? Why do you have to recite so much? You can't recite so little, you can't recite so simply, then such a child will be in a state of fear and weariness of learning, then the child will have no energy and his heart will be uneasy. Let's close his eyes and relax gently to calm the child down. At this time, children will get twice the result with half the effort.